Author Topic: wife's / GF's opinion on your look  (Read 6852 times)

Offline Adekoner1

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Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
« Reply #15 on: 2020-07-27 17:44:32 »
My partner prefers it pulled back, I think she likes more how it looks that way.

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Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
« Reply #16 on: 2020-07-27 18:13:21 »
Actually it was my girlfriend who brought me to being pulled back 24/7.

For a long time I was retracting on and off, mostly being covered while staying with my GF, because I thought it would be somewhat awkward being pulled back in front of her.
Here in Germany you can actually see some guys in saunas or public baths being pulled back or even circumcised, but somehow i felt like my GF would be totally shocked by me being pulled back.

So around 2 or 3 months after we met, we laid naked in our bed, my foreskin still retracted from the things that happened before, when she sat down between my legs, closely inspecting my penis.
She told me that being retracted looked so much nicer and why i don't wear it that way all the time.
Little did she know that this was what i dreamt of the last years, but i never followed through with being full-time retracted because i thought that it was "the norm" for a German man to have a foreskin covering the glans.
This evening i told her that i will follow through with keeping it retracted as long as possible.
She was super happy about it and even asked if i personally want to get circumcised at some point in time if i really like being retracted over the next time. I told her that this was something i also thought about but let's see what the future brings and how i like being full-time retracted.



Fast forward to a few weeks ago.
After a heavy night of drinking we both laid hungover and naked in our bed.
My foreskin actually covered 3/4 of my glans (which rarely happens, most of the time when being super flaccid and hungover). I didn't even notice it, but she instantly asked like "ooooh honey, what happened? Let me fix that really quick! It looks soooooo much better when there is no skin in the way!"

So my GF really appreciates it for the looks and aesthetics.
Feeling wise it's more or less still the same as before for us.
-Foreskin is foreskin, some like it some don't-
I actually have to admit that i don't really like the feeling of foreskin gliding while having sex, but that's a really personal preference.

Cheers

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Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
« Reply #17 on: 2020-07-29 06:09:01 »
My boyfriend thinks it's weird, I think he prefers the uncut look. And I even only told him about pulling back naturally yet (with which I started), not even about the methods keeping it pulled back tighter (his first reaction is holding me back, not to mention I'm entertaining the idea of tying my frenulum). Although he'll find out soon enough as the tape seems to leave behind traces when pulling it off 😂. God this is like coming out all over again xD

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Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
« Reply #18 on: 2020-07-29 08:16:17 »
Funny your boyfriend thinks this @ma91
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My boyfriend thinks it's weird, I think he prefers the uncut look
as my husband is the same and he is circumcised! He said he thinks it looks uncomfortable, although he is always saying that he thinks his is cleaner...so I can't win haha.

Always pull back for sex though which is similar to @supersonic, although I love the sliding feeling myself which I guess is why I wouldn't want to be circed myself.

Everyone is different guess!

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Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
« Reply #19 on: 2020-08-02 23:23:12 »

I actually have to admit that i don't really like the feeling of foreskin gliding while having sex, but that's a really personal preference.

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I can’t think of a time when I actually experienced the gliding during sex. I’ve started out covered when entering my wife, but as I enter, it usually goes back pretty quick and stays back after that. It’s always been that way for over 20 years with her now. I’ve always seen the videos about the gliding mechanism, but it hasn’t worked that way for us. I’m not complaining though because I prefer to stay pulled back during sex.

It’s funny though because either one of us will pull it back right before we put it in. Most likely because we’ve always done that since we did that before putting on condom when we used to use them.