Pulled back — living with a bare head

I use daily surgical spirits on glans to keep it dry

Question, did anything emotional or stressful happen to you recently?

What you write ticks all the boxes of balanitis. Which is often defined as an infection. An infection is when you catch an "alien" bacteria your body never met before. Like you catch a cold or a flue.

Most balanitis is just your natural balance of defenses getting tipped over. Microbes, part of your life and defenses, go wild. Nothing alien about it. Some guys much more sensitive to this than others. But when it happens, the penis is a regular spot. Yet when not sensitive in general, when it does hit you, you might not recognize it. Normally it goes away in a day or two as penises are brilliant in quick recovery.

I stay retracted for a day or two hear and there when I decide I want the feeling of it being back. Sometimes I like seeing the bare head. Then
I'll let it come forward again for a few days.

Quote from: JPOldman1961 on 2023-10-02 23:18:58mes1
Cut the toilet paper to the appropriate length.
I thought there was no difference in the quality of the paper products made by any manufacturer in any country, but it seems that some products tear easily.

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Fold the paper "twice".

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Wrap the paper over the cock.

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Tie both ends of the paper on the down of the cook.

Note: Don't 「tie」 it tightly, 「wrap」 it around it.
It doesn't matter if it gets torn or falls off while you sleep.
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Thanks for posting! I hate to be a bother but I'm not able to see pictures, and the instructions are a little difficult for me to process without a visual. Would you mind explaining in more detail for those of us without an image?

How old were you when you got circumcised, @rubbercock? Was it a good decision for you?

I'm curious about why people who achieve permanent retraction then go on to get circumcised.

It's nice to have the option. For years I love the feeling of my foreskin rolling over the glans then I got into keeping it retracted. Partially because of and ex,GF who encouraged it.
Lately though masturbation I'm enjoying it fully retracted and taped to better hold it in place for a time. Then I'll go back to letting it stay covered for a few days.

Has anyone tried using Neosporin powder or similar powders to speed up keratinization? Please share your experience. I'm thinking about using it, so if you have any advice, please let me know.

Hi All

I am looking for a bit of advice really that I suppose maybe isnt directly related to pulling back. I have been pulling back intermittently for years without any real problems. If anything I think it has helped to loosen up my foreskin.

But something has happened in the last fortnight, which I cant put my finger on. The head of my dick went quite red and sore which I was worried may be balanitis (something I have never had before). That has gone off now, but I still have an itching/burning sensation right around the end of my foreskin at the opening. It has improved from what it was, but it still isnt right.

Something I have noticed is that the end of my foreskin now has what I can probably describe as more of a phimotic ring. The skin is stlightly different in colour and feels almost smoother/shinier and is of course a little sore. I can still pull back, but it is tighter than it was before for sure.

Any ideas on what is going on or what I should do?

I am quite reluctant to put anything on my dick that might make things worse and I have stopped retracting for the time being in case its making things worse. But any advice welcome.

I accept I may have to go see a doctor, but I thought I would ask you guys first! Especially as I dont want the first thing the doctors to do is recommend cutting it off!

In my experience, mature women of many culture prefer to date men with "fully exposed" glans. But almost no woman know about retraction (except very few older Japanese women from deeply traditional culture). Almost all woman think full-circumcision is the only procedure to permanently bare a man's glans. When I started dating my pro-circumcision wife, she noticed that although I had fully exposed and desensitized glans, but my penis has no circumcision mark and I have a thin ring of sensitive skin behind my glans. She assumed my parents gave me some type of non-standard circumcision until I told her about my retracted status. She freaked out when I first told her about retraction (her reaction was "retraction must be some abnormal or homosexual fetish"). Over time she started to accept retraction as a normal healthy practice. Now she appreciates my choice. She admires that I have the option to cover my glans, but I have chosen to keep my glans fully bare at all time. Interestingly she once said that given a choice between circumcision and retraction by a potential date, most intact men will chose retraction and "cheat" (retract before sex and then pull his foreskin over)! That is why she still prefers circumcision.

I've always wanted my skin as far back and as tightly back as possible. When I first started retracting my foreskin bunched close to my corona. After 20 years of permanent retraction it stayed somewhat further back. My circumcision ensured the tightness that I sought. My scar is a little way back from my corona and permanently visible to anyone wanting to see it.