I have found that after sex or masturbating I find it natural to want to cover over the glans. I don't know if this is because they are a little more sensitive after climaxing but recently I have taken to slipping my cock ring on after climax to keep the glans fully exposed. I must say that this keeps me aroused and I feel more likely to go for a second climax.
Does anyone else feel the same way or have any experiences to share?
Oh absolutely, it can be really tough to get over that hump. It's what ended many of my previous attempts at staying pulled back long-term.
I found it can be helpful to hold off on cumming for as long as you can -- weeks, even, to get past that hump.
I think there is another same/ similar topic in the forum but that is ok :)
When I firstly started to keep my foreskin back I was really not able to keep it back after climax because the glans was super sensitive and I was also staying hard...ready for a second round...
Little by little I got used to that because I said to myself that if I really want to feel cut I have to go thru that feeling and get used to it....and I did. I do try to cum at least once a day no matter sex or jerk :)
Now my glans is still very sensitive after climax but I really like it and even tho I feel deep inside I need to cover it I don't.
I wonder about the real infant cicumcised guys and do their glans gets that sensitive and do they have some inner unknown for them need after climax ?
Hi. I used to put my foreskin back over the head after sex or masturbating but don't anymore, i just leave it exposed and the same goes before sex or masturbating. It's Nice to have the best of both worlds.
Quote from: camchain on 2016-11-09 08:54:22
Hi. I used to put my foreskin back over the head after sex or masturbating but don't anymore, i just leave it exposed and the same goes before sex or masturbating. It's Nice to have the best of both worlds.
I am the same, yes the skin used to go over the head, but now i keep it back and let it go soft with the skin back and it seems to be fine, perhaps i am less sensitive as time goes by
Yes, same here. I find the skin stays back easier as the glans is a little more flared just after.
Quote from: Wsmman on 2016-11-09 17:52:26
Yes, same here. I find the skin stays back easier as the glans is a little more flared just after.
yes i think thats happens to me
Yes, I was the same, and always found it difficult to keep the foreskin retracted. However, once I started keeping it back 24/7 I began to find the sensitivity after orgasm began to reduce, so it was then actually nice and horny to keep the head bare, and so since then I have always pulled it back even if it has rolled forward straight after after sex. Also quite nice to fiddle with and squeeze if it is retracted after cumming.
After masturbating my foreskin stays back very easily, guess with it being used to keeping back it is natural for it to do so.
Quote from: Jockbox on 2016-11-10 16:50:00
After masturbating my foreskin stays back very easily, guess with it being used to keeping back it is natural for it to do so.
Yes but is your head flared at all
No, don't have that problem.
My head doesn't flare up, think it is just with my erection the foreskin stays back better, not that it doesn't when I am soft.
Quote from: Jockbox on 2016-11-11 16:48:04
My head doesn't flare up, think it is just with my erection the foreskin stays back better, not that it doesn't when I am soft.
That sounds good, mine does bunch up, so i leave it and it stay like that whilst it gets soft
Quote from: thesevenpointfive on 2016-11-11 22:54:23
That sounds good, mine does bunch up, so i leave it and it stay like that whilst it gets soft
My glans remained pretty flared or distended for several hours either from masturbation or just having a prolonged erection without ejaculation. These definitely made my foreskin stay back easily even while sitting down for several hours without it rolling over my glans. Wish I could keep my glans distended indefinitely.
I too have the instinct to pull the skin forward after climaxing. It seems like when I do, I am done with anything sexual for a day or two. But if I keep it pulled back after, the sensitivity is strong from it rubbing against clothing or touching it. (Which I do quite a bit) it seems like the mood to orgasm after is still present. It's just a hard mindset for me to keep it back though.
As an intermittent retracter, I deal with this issue repeatedly, because the glans desensitizes after a prolonged period of retraction, but resensitizes after I start wearing the foreskin forward for a while. After a period of non-retraction, my inclination is always to cover the glans after orgasm. However, if I resist the urge, and keep it retracted, the flared head does help to keep it back. I also think that the orgasm kind of helps the foreskin relax into the retracted position if I keep it that way, which helps accelerate adaptation into a stated of perpetual retraction.
I used to get the urge to cover the glans after cumming but the urge wore off after a while.
I guess practice makes perfect. Just keep at it.
I almost always masturbate with my forekin taped back tight, and I also get an almost overwhelming urge to cover over my glans with my foreskin right after cumming. It's not that my glans is super sensitive, it's just that it "wants" to be covered. As long as I leave the tape on for a few minutes after cumming, the urge subsides.
I also wonder if cut guys feel this same desire, especially when I watch a video of a cut guy cumming and see him pull his remaining skin as far forward as possible.
Never seen a vid of a cut guy try to pull his (lack of) skin forward. Has anyone else seen this? Examples?
Quote from: TapedStick on 2017-01-21 01:25:21
Never seen a vid of a cut guy try to pull his (lack of) skin forward. Has anyone else seen this? Examples?
See videos of men that are restoring their foreskin. They do that all the time.
Quote from: TapedStick on 2017-01-21 01:25:21
Never seen a vid of a cut guy try to pull his (lack of) skin forward. Has anyone else seen this? Examples?
I've definitely seen this in porn. Never really thought about it. Just assumed it was part of them jacking and milking out more cum. I don't know if there's any significance to this, but it's an interesting thought.
Yeah, for some guys it just seems like it's just jacking and milking. And for really tightly cut guys, they can't do it at all. But for some guys, it almost seems like they are responding to the same urge I feel to cover over my glans, even though they can't really do it.
I don't think circumcised dude pull or have super touch sensitivity in glans after jerk off. They usually leave their cock open in the air after jerking.
This is what makes the idea of roughened glans a lot good. I always dream of having a glans tougher to extent that i would stop covering up my glans after ejaculation. :-D
Currently my glans cannot stand touch even of my cotton undie after ejaculation. :-\
I never felt the urge to cover my head after masturbating or sex, I just can't stand being touched on the bare head for about 5 minutes.
It is something you just get used to doing, i know as i used to cover, but not anymore, don't feel the need to. it will get better with time.
I did this too, I found that after I masturbate I want to pull foreskin back cover the glans. I don't know why. But when I haven't masturbated for a couple days or more. I want to pull my foreskin back and show the glans.
I have the same strong instinct to cover over straight after I've cum; in fact it's always just after cumming that I'm most certain that I don't want to be cirucmcised, having found it a horny idea seconds before! For me, the two settings of my foreskin are rather like an on/off switch for being horny or not - it sounds from what others have said too that there is some sort of deep instinct at work here. Interesting stuff.
Quote from: GarethUK on 2017-07-20 21:07:47
I have the same strong instinct to cover over straight after I've cum; in fact it's always just after cumming that I'm most certain that I don't want to be cirucmcised, having found it a horny idea seconds before! For me, the two settings of my foreskin are rather like an on/off switch for being horny or not - it sounds from what others have said too that there is some sort of deep instinct at work here. Interesting stuff.
It's because your brain still links having your foreskin retracted, as something sexual. Once you've had an orgasm, the hormone levels in your brain change, making you want to stop everything to do with sex and not be interested in anything sexual. So you feel the urge to put the foreskin forward. You just have to ignore that urge, like stopping a bad habit. The more times you do ignore it, the more your brain will learn that the retracted foreskin is normal for you and not just sexual, so the changing in hormone levels after an orgasm will no longer make you want to push it forward.
Quote from: marksrobins on 2017-07-17 17:09:33
I don't think circumcised dude pull or have super touch sensitivity in glans after jerk off. They usually leave their cock open in the air after jerking.
When I was pulling back, I used to wank with the bare helmet, and indeed after a while it felt more normal to leave the foreskin retracted after cumming than to push it forward. Now I am circumcised, it feels equally natural to have a bare glans after cumming.
I think this is what helps develop the 'mushroom head'. The glans remains 'inflated' for some time afterward, and if you push the foreskin forward, it will squash blood out so it becomes smaller. If left uncovered, it gets used to being that size, and tends to stay like that.
Quote from: pelagian on 2017-07-23 10:20:06
When I was pulling back, I used to wank with the bare helmet, and indeed after a while it felt more normal to leave the foreskin retracted after cumming than to push it forward. Now I am circumcised, it feels equally natural to have a bare glans after cumming.
I think this is what helps develop the 'mushroom head'. The glans remains 'inflated' for some time afterward, and if you push the foreskin forward, it will squash blood out so it becomes smaller. If left uncovered, it gets used to being that size, and tends to stay like that.
That kind of make sense.
I found that if I cover my head for a while, no matter what time after cumming or not, when I retract it after that it is wrinkled.
One of the reasons I stay retracted, because the glans remains bigger.
Quote from: GarethUK on 2017-07-20 21:07:47
I have the same strong instinct to cover over straight after I've cum; in fact it's always just after cumming that I'm most certain that I don't want to be cirucmcised, having found it a horny idea seconds before! For me, the two settings of my foreskin are rather like an on/off switch for being horny or not - it sounds from what others have said too that there is some sort of deep instinct at work here. Interesting stuff.
Exactly the same feelings i encounter!
Exposed glans is such a turn on to me which is no more after ejaculation.
However after 10 mins or so i get strong urge to expose it again.
This ejaculation sensitivity is what i m trying to get rid. To remain exposed even after ejaculation. Just like cut guys.
Great tips esp for mushroom head and toughness.
I would force this habit out and try best to keep pulled.
Thanks a lot guys.
Quote from: TapedStick on 2017-01-21 01:25:21
Never seen a vid of a cut guy try to pull his (lack of) skin forward. Has anyone else seen this? Examples?
Yes i have seen this, depends on the cut, they go from the root and push the skin forward, but once they let go, it bounces back again. Some really cut high have no chance thought there is just nothing there
I had tried to stay skinned back a couple of times in the past but always pulled my foreskin forward after a climax.It happened without thinking and it took a while before I thought about skinning back again..
Now my girl friend has come to the rescue. I had covered the head as usual after sex and she asked my why I did that. She reminded me I had agreed to keep my foreskin retracted and needed a bit of help. She pushed me back onto the bed and slowly skinned me back. A few minutes later it slipped forward of its own accord and we both laughed. It is still early days for me and I know it will take time to break the habit.
It's very cool how you have a girlfriend who is so interested in permanent retraction. Mine is cool with it, but not as invested as yours. I think it would be great to have that sort of constant motivation, like having a good workout partner at the gym. :D
Quote from: marksrobins on 2017-08-06 07:29:16
Exactly the same feelings i encounter!
Exposed glans is such a turn on to me which is no more after ejaculation.
However after 10 mins or so i get strong urge to expose it again.
This ejaculation sensitivity is what i m trying to get rid. To remain exposed even after ejaculation. Just like cut guys.
Same here! Sometimes if I can just distract myself for few minutes right after I cum, that's enough for me to stay pulled back, since just like you I'll want to pull back again in a few minutes if I do pull forward. Sometimes I have to cum two or theee times before I manage to keep pulled back. But it's always nice when I do! Maybe it's getting easier with practice? I'll report back with more practice. ;)