Pulled back — living with a bare head

General Category => Polls => Topic started by: thesevenpointfive on 2014-08-21 19:05:52

Title: Being Cut
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2014-08-21 19:05:52
I have spent several years skinning back and love the head exposed, then some one asked, why then don't you get cut, i check out the price and the style..but...something is holding me back
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: pelagian on 2014-09-28 09:33:07
Same here. But I got circumcised. I just knew that if i didn't then I would never rest, and would be thinking about it all the time. (I still do, but now it's how please di am!!)
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2014-10-04 20:12:57
Same here. But I got circumcised. I just knew that if i didn't then I would never rest, and would be thinking about it all the time. (I still do, but now it's how please di am!!)
Yes thats i feel, in the end, the question come if i keep t back for so long, why not get cut
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: halfard on 2014-11-28 09:03:54
Have always found the look of cut cock just so sexy and I too have had this thought, get cut, most of my adult life.  My skin stays back all the time now, looks and feel great, so keep as it is .... however I wish it was tighter.

I gather, chatting to cut guys, thay high and tight really does feel extra special.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: Retracted on 2015-02-08 02:21:10
I've considered it in the past. However, since I achieved 100% retraction, I just didn't see the need for surgery. The high and tight style looks absolutely amazing, though. And if you personally had health issues with your foreskin, I would always recommend it. My brother decided to get circumcised because of a painful phimosis when erect. Didn't even bother trying to stretch it out. He has a high and tight cut now with barely any scarring and he's much happier.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: Ryanjacob on 2015-02-21 03:58:43
When I'm older I will defined get the surgery because I think the look of high and tight looks really sexy and hot on a guy.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: baredsince14 on 2015-07-06 23:52:22
...I know I'm late to the party here, but if you retract all the time and are thinking of getting cut I'd say just get it done and be happier with your dick.

There's a great thread on MensHealth for guys getting circed as adults and the vast majority of them say that despite it being your most precious appendage, it's more discomfort than pain and you heal really quickly. Several have said that thinking about being circumcised was far worse than having the snip.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: pelagian on 2015-08-03 13:55:34
There's a great thread on MensHealth for guys getting circed as adults and the vast majority of them say that despite it being your most precious appendage, it's more discomfort than pain and you heal really quickly. Several have said that thinking about being circumcised was far worse than having the snip.

Entirely true. It was mildly uncomfortable at worst for the first three weeks or so while the healing got under way. I think most men actually experience the worst pain from an suddenly exposed glans (especially if it's never been uncovered), whereas those of us who pull back are used to it.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: brandontan267 on 2015-08-06 12:35:35
Thought about it... But since my guy partner like the skin so I didn't. My girl doesn't seem fussed, plus its expensive. I'd rather save up and get meself the Subaru WRX STi.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: Johnny_V on 2015-08-06 14:44:28
Well, I also tough about it, and finally did it, I told the doctor that I had phimosis and I got cut for just 3$, that was the tax for my one night at the hospital.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: FormerRetractor on 2015-09-07 02:55:19
As someone who used to have a long foreskin, and is now circumcised, I would say that sometimes I'm happy to be cut and sometimes I long for my foreskin.  When I'm tanned and at a nude beach, I get a very sexy looking two-tone shaft, and the circumcision scar is very visible.  But, when I used pull back my foreskin at the nude beach, it felt more erotic.  There's just something sooo erotic about a retracted foreskin, but part of the rush is in the act of retracting it.  We would arrive at the beach, I'd take off my shorts, and my wife wanted to be the one that retracted my foreskin; she just loved to do it.  I get the same rush when I pull back the hood on my wife's clit.  And like so many guys contemplating circumcision, she sometimes fantasizes about removing her hood and permanently exposing her clit...it's not just us guys...
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: FormerRetractor on 2015-09-08 19:37:28
We were looking at some of the posts and pics last night, and my wife commented that she missed the "pulling-the-foreskin-back-game" (her words) and my frenulum; she says that a frenulum makes it look "hot".  But, her advice to all you guys is:  keep it pulled back because foreskin covering the glans is not hot, but a frenulum and foreskin retraction is.  So, she says, "forget the circ and spend your money on your girl, you'll get more sex that way". 
Just a thought for those of you who aren't happy with too much foreskin...
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: FormerRetractor on 2015-09-08 19:48:45
And one other thing...
I got circumcised because I thought that it was the solution to everything and didn't know that there were other choices (thank god for the Internet).  I'm not unhappy with the results of my circ, but I didn't realize that if you get it done as an adult, the circumcision scars tend to be uneven, or as my say-it-like-it-is wife said it, my circ scar is all over the map (if I ever figure out how to upload pics here, I will send them and you can see the irregular scar)...
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: Kylar on 2015-09-09 18:10:25
And one other thing...
I got circumcised because I thought that it was the solution to everything and didn't know that there were other choices (thank god for the Internet).  I'm not unhappy with the results of my circ, but I didn't realize that if you get it done as an adult, the circumcision scars tend to be uneven, or as my say-it-like-it-is wife said it, my circ scar is all over the map (if I ever figure out how to upload pics here, I will send them and you can see the irregular scar)...

Considering it's much easier to operate on a bigger thing that's kinda weird to hear — seen quite a few examples of adult circ going right too, so it's not a rule that it has to be uneven and such.  That's just a sloppy surgeon I'm afraid.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: soundsgreat87 on 2015-09-09 18:27:00
Yeah, the scar is really just dependent upon skill and technique. I've seen a few adult cuts and they were all super, super clean.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: FormerRetractor on 2015-09-09 19:09:52
Yeah, it was quite a while ago, before the Internet.  The amount of information I had was so minimal that I certainly was not making an informed decision.  And, both my family doctor and the surgeon didn't provide much information at all.  All the surgeon really said to me was that my foreskin was too long and too tight, and that we should do a circ.  In hindsight, I'm a little bit split on my decision to do it, although my wife thinks that it was a good decision.  And of course, back in those days I was convinced that I was the only one retracting his foreskin...
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: cavalier on 2015-09-09 23:17:35
Yeah, it was quite a while ago, before the Internet.  The amount of information I had was so minimal that I certainly was not making an informed decision.  And, both my family doctor and the surgeon didn't provide much information at all.  All the surgeon really said to me was that my foreskin was too long and too tight, and that we should do a circ.  In hindsight, I'm a little bit split on my decision to do it, although my wife thinks that it was a good decision.  And of course, back in those days I was convinced that I was the only one retracting his foreskin...

I think that doctors and surgeons these days are pretty much the same. A close friend's son had a problem with continually getting yeast type infections on his glans and before he knew it the doctor had recommended a circumcision and he was down the clinic for a quick circ. He was only 13 but I am sure that pulling back would have dried out his head and probably solved the problem. It cured my balanitis.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: FormerRetractor on 2015-09-10 16:29:18
Well, I once heard it said: "show me how you make your money and I'll show you how you behave".  An urologist will make more money by circumcising you than he will by suggesting foreskin retraction...enough said.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: pelagian on 2015-09-19 13:22:18
Well, I once heard it said: "show me how you make your money and I'll show you how you behave".  An urologist will make more money by circumcising you than he will by suggesting foreskin retraction...enough said.

True. But I did once know a guy who contracted thrush from his g/f, and his GP said he could be  circumcised, or just keep it pulled back for several weeks, which is what he did. I'd love to know if he is still retracted, or if he went back to full cover!
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: rubbercock on 2015-12-18 03:00:06
I started wearing it skinned back at the age of 11 and got circumcised as an adult. I wish all uncut men skinned back.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: Dinkleberg on 2016-02-06 12:21:45
My wife and I have talked about my getting cut a few times. I LOVE it when she masturbates me with the foreskin retracted and when having sex doggy style, I'll hold my foreskin back and feels incredible, and the increased friction pleases her too. But she's always said she likes my hood. So it's stayed.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: Jockbox on 2016-02-06 20:15:52
I like the look of a bare head, have thought about being cut as I don't like the look of my bunched up foreskin that stays behind the head. But now that I  have tried the spoon method which works on my cock, it helps to keep the bunched up look to a minimum. Each to their own, but just seeing a bare head is hot.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2016-03-28 19:43:17
Entirely true. It was mildly uncomfortable at worst for the first three weeks or so while the healing got under way. I think most men actually experience the worst pain from an suddenly exposed glans (especially if it's never been uncovered), whereas those of us who pull back are used to it.

Yes with my head so dry i am hoping for the same
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: Dinkleberg on 2016-05-20 09:24:18
I've given circumcision heavy thought too. I've decided it will happen, but I need the money first. I've been skinned hack for a while now and love the feel and I'm none too attached to my foreskin.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: strathsport101 on 2017-10-23 19:21:30
Same here. But I got circumcised. I just knew that if i didn't then I would never rest, and would be thinking about it all the time. (I still do, but now it's how please di am!!)

That's excellent, do you have before and after images?
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: soundsgreat87 on 2017-10-24 01:17:20
Keep it to DMs.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: __ on 2019-06-27 20:18:34
I've always thought of it, more or less. However during the early years I was more focusing on the process of retracting, and also monitoring how sensation evolved. So I was happy with keeping the skin. Also you get the idea that if you want to go back to the non-retracted state, you can, whereas circumcision is, well, difficult to erase.
I feel I have now reached a stable state, where the foreskin has no real use (can't really masturbate with it any more) and the sensitivity of the glans is probably decreased, but didn't vary over the last few years. So I could be tempted to circumcise. I have my doubts if the sensitivity would ever return if if covered again - maybe there's someone who can comment on this ?
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: soundsgreat87 on 2019-06-27 20:43:25
There are some threads about regaining sensitivity!
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2019-07-06 15:32:50
I've always thought of it, more or less. However during the early years I was more focusing on the process of retracting, and also monitoring how sensation evolved. So I was happy with keeping the skin. Also you get the idea that if you want to go back to the non-retracted state, you can, whereas circumcision is, well, difficult to erase.
I feel I have now reached a stable state, where the foreskin has no real use (can't really masturbate with it any more) and the sensitivity of the glans is probably decreased, but didn't vary over the last few years. So I could be tempted to circumcise. I have my doubts if the sensitivity would ever return if if covered again - maybe there's someone who can comment on this ?

I have the same sense, the sensitivity is so little that make no difference, if i use my skin, it cracks as it so dry so need to use a lube to help.

There are some threads about regaining sensitivity!

There are ways of stretching the skin back, thing is do you really get the sensitivity back, guys say they do, but not really sure.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: _yeah_ on 2019-07-07 01:36:14
I've always had the idea of getting cut in the back of my mind, but when I started trying to permanently pull back, it was at the beginning of high school, so I couldn't really get circumcised since it wasn't for any medical reason like phimosis or anything, and my parents would never pay for it, so I just kept to retracting.
At this point, I have keratinized the head and the foreskin stays back most of the time, it's just annoying when the foreskin rolls over the head every so often.The question is whether I'll ever be able to rest knowing that the foreskin going forward is still a possibility. At this point, the foreskin doesn't really do anything for me other than the nerves, and all it does is get in the way during sexual activities. So, I think I might get it done at some point in the future, I'm just not sure when I'll get it done
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: Horatio on 2020-07-16 01:46:46
I would never get rid of my foreskin. It is too much fun to play with, I love sliding it back and forwards over my glans, watching the head pop out. Keeping my foreskin retracted is a play thing for me, it gives pleasure to see the head exposed, but having the option to cover up is good too. I do like (now with the spoon method) having it held back for a day or two without it closing. Having a foreskin for sex is great too. When I get head, having it move around, up and down is great. Vaginal sex (well for my girl anyway) gives some extra glide, and for anal, the extra skin makes it slide easier with less lubrication.
Keeping my foreskin retracted and intact gives me the best of both worlds now.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2020-07-16 10:54:05
Having spoken to a doc, he said that high and tight cuts are difficult to do, most now want to use a device rather than use freehand. He claims the device causes less pain and is easier, and gives a tight cut. So even if you think about it, the doc doing any thing may just tell you to do the normal cut.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: guest4003 on 2021-01-09 17:09:33
I have been but staying pulled back for years now. So that is my current status. I do keep getting circumcised “on the table “however it has not been a major priority. I did get picked on and singled out in locker room situations for not being cut. Experienced a significant amount of harassment when I was younger. Was asked why mine looked different all the time. Strongly prefer pulled back look and it has helped me blend in better in a situation to where I’ve had to get changed/showers around others. Growing up guys were comfortable getting changed around each other and all of my closest friends and even cousins are circumcised. I’ve even had doctors perform physicals and look at me kind of in shock to see that I was not cut. Unfortunately growing up most of the locker rooms/shower rooms I had to use had no dividers and were all out in the open. So zero privacy. Don’t have a circumcision fetish but did not like being picked on and harassed either. Pulling back has been a major help.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: teo on 2021-07-14 17:53:23
How long does it takes for you to achieve 100% retraction ?
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: Nexolaris on 2021-07-16 22:04:24
How long does it takes for you to achieve 100% retraction ?
Each guys' foreskin behaves differently due to his individual anatomy. For some it's pretty easy to keep their foreskin retracted while for others it takes longer, and some guys may never be able to achieve permanent retraction and/or a satisfying result.
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: teo on 2021-07-16 23:03:40
 
Each guys' foreskin behaves differently due to his individual anatomy. For some it's pretty easy to keep their foreskin retracted while for others it takes longer, and some guys may never be able to achieve permanent retraction and/or a satisfying result.

 :'( thanks for your answer.
it's not what I expected to read. I hoped 1 or 2 years is enough.
For me a satisfying result is that it stands alone uncovered, nothing more
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: Nexolaris on 2021-07-17 21:13:05

 :'( thanks for your answer.
it's not what I expected to read. I hoped 1 or 2 years is enough.
For me a satisfying result is that it stands alone uncovered, nothing more
Had a look at your pics and your introductory post. Being a grower like you will definitely be a challenge. Maybe your foreskin will adapt to its new position if you continue to wear your silicone glans ring for longer. The only way to find out is to keep at using it, and if it works you'll be able to keep your foreskin retracted without aid at one point.  :)
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: teo on 2021-07-24 00:32:15
 ;D
your answer give me hopes.
eventually I consider about cutting the frenulum if i can't stay retracted without ring.
This could hepl the foreskin to stay along the shaft and keep barehead, no ?
Title: Re: Being Cut
Post by: Nexolaris on 2021-07-26 11:24:51
;D
your answer give me hopes.
eventually I consider about cutting the frenulum if i can't stay retracted without ring.
This could hepl the foreskin to stay along the shaft and keep barehead, no ?
This could help but there's no 100% guarantee.