I would have so much to say right now about this but i try to keep it short.
So..I'm 41 years old very sexually oriented male , ive been almost obsessed about sex for most of my life. Didnt have too many girlfriends back in the day and now consider myself happy just being bachelor with no need for relationships.
I've had this subconscious feeling within me that something has never been completely "right" with my penis. When i was a kid , sex or genitals were a taboo in my family, i was hastily taught one time to wash myself under the foreskin but as a kid i didnt pay too much attention and basically my d*** was left being on its own until i became interested in sexual activities.When i started to examine under the hood, penis had survived all the neglect but there were maybe 2 or "attachments" where foreskin had latched on to the glans, those were ripped off pretty quick when i started my masturbation habits.
Forward on to the first girlfriends, actual intercourses were of course very nice but sometimes it had that "too much" where everything would become too intense almost painful, especially when i was closing orgasm and often lead to erection going away. Similar thing was always happening with direct masturbation efforts touching glans. I've just never been able to achieve good orgasm without having foreskin over.
I didnt think about it all the time, thats why i never gave it too much thought. I felt its the way i was built. That i just have this super sensitive penis and nothing could be done. I tried to train myself keeping foreskin pulled back to loose some of the intensity, it never was a great success.
Then i came across subject of frenulum and how to get it sorted.
Now, this is also something i was slightly aware of, that i indeed had condition of frenulum breve. My penis just didnt look like most i seen through the porn. What i knew is if i pulled too far my glans would go down and become tight. Suddenly i had enlightenment: What if this thing is the root cause of all these problems??
Gathering all the info i could about tying frenulum,for several hours I gathered willpower and strength to went through it . I remember thinking "am i seriously gonna poke a needle through my frenulum?!?". Then i just said to myself "f*** it, lets do this"
I did it all very ghetto style: Regular sewing needle , some monofil fishing line and rubbing alcohol throughout the process to keep things clean. No numbing agents were available and tbh poking the needle through wasnt really painful just shocking to your mind(i made sure not to hit any veins). Not much to add about experience that hadnot already been said, it was not a pleasant 7 days I can tell that, so if you decide to do this you need to have determination and faith. Also i had to adjust line(poor choice of thread i know) a lot and manually stimulate cutting process every now and then.
One interesting thing i found out during the process is how increasingly horny i started to become as frenulum started to loosen up. I'm not the one who could just decide to not masturbate for 7 days, its just not gonna happen. So i had to relieve myself few times, it was frustrating painful but also new kind of sensation starting to happen.
So....
Now i've been freed from my frenulum for 2 days. The healing is still happening and place is somewhat sore...however...
the feeling of my new penis.. just WOW WOW WOW....
I dont know how to put it in words. Im feeling almost like discovering sex for the first time, but this time how it REALLY SHOULD FEEL.
Touching of the glans now is so different than it used to, it feels heavenly. Moving the foreskin over the glans feels natural and not forced like before and also so friggin' good. My erections have become so hard that i didnt know was even possible, it actually feels a bit scary at times, my theory is that my previous tight frenulum really messed things up, preventing natural blood flow and who knows what!
And the other interesting thing: It looks different now! I could say it looks..happy :shock:
I just cant wait for thing to completely heal so i can start experimenting fully with this new found exctasy
Also, Not sure if im gonna for 2nd cut to loosen it up even more. I will give this one few weeks to adjust and then re-evaluate need for it, but if that time comes ill make sure to use better thread to it, the self adjusting ones :wink:
Hope someone read it all! For me this has been an eye opener!