Pulled back — living with a bare head

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Title: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: jackn on 2018-08-11 15:58:17
I was just curious to see how many keep the foreskin pulled back after orgasm. I have a very hard time trying to keep it pulled back, I would have to say 50% of the time. Mine is from the mindset to cover the glans and the sensitivity of anything touching it afterwards (about 2 hrs. after). I can do it,  but there is always the constant urge to cover the glans.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: _yeah_ on 2018-08-11 18:06:11
It is hard to keep it retracted after orgasm I agree. I have struggled with it as well. It was hard at first, but I've been getting better about just leaving it back no matter what.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Aftskin on 2018-08-12 00:50:04
I have no urge to cover the head after an orgasm anymore.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: strathsport101 on 2018-08-12 12:13:08
I know what you mean. I love going bare headed all the way through. Especially as by the end if it is nice and flared. But it is difficult not to.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: cavalier on 2018-08-12 21:03:11
I think it's one of these primitive instincts we have developed over millions of years of evolution. I try and resist covering up but it is so difficult.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: bobenc0 on 2018-08-13 10:56:03
At the beginning of my permanent retraction experience I always has to cover it because it was way too sensitive.
But when I past the first half of the year being exposed all the time I started to keep it back after cum everytime. In about 2 weeks I got used to it, now I don't ever cover it, not at day or night, not atter orgasm, not after anything or during anything :)
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2018-08-14 19:56:24
I don't pull it back, i leave it as is, which is behind the head
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Uncut_soldier on 2018-08-15 00:30:05
I always leave it retracted but the soon creeps up quickly, kinda inside out with just the slit visible. I give up and just pull it forward, it's basically just going to rub the slit if I don't

I have a long skin and I'm a certified grower lol
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: PermanetlyBareKnob on 2018-11-18 21:40:13
This is also something I struggle with.  I really want to keep my glans exposed all the time, even after orgasm, but the urge to pull the foreskin forward over the glans again is almost irresistible.  I do find that the urge is strongest immediately after orgasm and fades very quickly after that.  If I can just resist for a couple of minutes, that’s often enough for the urge to fade.  I usually have untaped or pulled the skin forward before the urge fades, but afterwards, I just pull the skin back again.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: camchain on 2018-12-08 09:08:17
I don't put my skin back over the head. it's back before i play with it, while i am playing with it and after i have cum, so back all the time. feel's good to. try it guys.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Johnscot on 2018-12-08 17:55:38
after orgasm as soon as I start to soften I put my glans ring back in place.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: rubbercock on 2019-06-03 14:21:26
I never had the urge to cover my glans after ejaculating. That's probably because by the time of my first wet orgasm I'd already been skinned back permanently for a couple of years. I started at the age of 11.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Jockbox on 2019-06-07 14:54:30
Soon after I cum if I wank with my foreskin I pull it back almost straight away. But most of the time I keep my foreskin back while wanking.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: pelagian on 2019-06-08 10:29:07
In my pulled-back days I never wanted to cover over after orgasm.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: jimbob on 2019-06-18 14:46:47
Mine stays back itself most of time now
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Jagtstein on 2019-06-18 15:45:32
I start the masturbation with the 3 finger method, that is. Middle and index fingers of the right hand on the bottom of the penis and thumbs up. This is best because at my age, (73 years) the penis is not getting stiff so fast anymore. Then when the excitement potential increases, I take as before the whole hand. I always push the foreskin back and forth the whole stroke. That's just the advantage of masturbation that you can satisfy even without a full erection.
As a lubricant, butter has been found to be best over time, and I used to use a fat cream that is not so good on the skin in the long term. Above all, it is important to wash the penis well after use, cleanliness is very important for a habitual masturbator like me, because the penis in good condition must always be available. After ejaculation, I close the foreskin again. Because then the glans is well protected, and the sensitivity is preserved. :)
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: __ on 2019-06-24 21:47:07
I love this poll. It is so relevant to retracting ... Even with 10+ years of almost 24/7 retracting, I felt until recently that the urge was still there to cover the head after orgasm. With intercourse I don't have the choice really, the penis softens fast and pulling out will automatically cover the glans. However when I play solo with lube massaging, skin pulled back tight, the orgasm is not localized in the glans only, it is much deeper throughout the whole member. Then I feel absolutely no urge to cover after coming. If I masturbate by moving the retracted  foreskin  up and down on the shaft, even though the head stays bare during the act the urge to cover will be almost unstoppable afterwards ...

It's interesting when you watch these porn videos where you sometimes wonder if the guy is cut or not ... when you see one of them finally bringing the foreskin over the head when or right after cumming ... you know he just couldn't help it :D
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Fabik on 2020-04-14 15:57:58
Sorry for digging this relatively old thread.

As discussed in the other thread : I'm not (yet ?) a permanent retractor, but actually since a few years now I have been masturbating with direct stimulation and retracting with the other hand (not always, but mostly). And what I aimed to do, is do it that way and then stay retracted for the night. For some reason I thought that was a good idea to start retracting.

I was very wrong. Staying retracted after orgasm is impossible. I tried dozens, and dozens of times. What I didn't even know is that it's much simpler to retract during the day. Retracting during the night but without any sexual activity is hard, but not as hard. Why didn't I start with that, I don't know.

And after all what's so wrong with that ? There's nothing wrong about retracting day only, or even 24/7 but make an exception after orgasms.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Kylar on 2020-04-14 17:46:21
And after all what's so wrong with that ? There's nothing wrong about retracting day only, or even 24/7 but make an exception after orgasms.

I guess it depends on the personal goal — if you want to be retracted 24/7, maybe your goal is to be able to stay back even after orgasm.

I can do it, it took me a long long time, but it's not at all horrible anymore.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: lvprcm on 2020-04-28 16:45:54
I feel that was one of the few benefits of having sex was having your penis stayed somewhat engorged for awhile after orgasm therefore naturally allowing my foreskin to stay retracted with no effort at least for a few hours. It was the best of outcomes I thought. Unfortunately, it was always short-lived since once back to normal the foreskin would have a tendency to roll over the glans as it gradually soften.  :-\
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: M_back__uk on 2020-05-03 08:20:49
I use the spoon method to keep retracted all the time and so when I masturbate I always keep the skin pulled back behind the glands and it feels so good, especially when I cum and my glands are engorged.

However when I have sex with my wife I always have to unfold the folded skin back over the glands before intercourse as it just pulls my skin back far too tight and feels extremely uncomfortable.

Afterwards, the skin normally stays somewhat pulled back but as soon as I am soft again, it will pull forward over the glands again and I often then don't pull back again until I feel the need to, which sometimes may be one or two days later.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: jamestrt1 on 2020-05-03 15:41:43
For years I had the urge to pull the foreskin forward after sex or masturbating. I often thought I would try keeping it back, but I just somehow got the feeling I needed to have it forward, as I think many men do, due to the extra sensitivity after orgasm. Once I started to keep retracted 24/7, with the tucking under method (like the spoon method), when my glans had fully dried out and toughened up I began to be able to keep it back after orgasm, and nowadays never even think of having it forward afterwards. In fact if it rolls forward as I come out of my wife, I immediately have to pull it back, as it feels uncomfortable to be covered now after so many years of retracting.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: guest285 on 2020-05-15 06:47:18
Same here. The first years when I didn't pull back 24/7 I always pulled the skin forward after orgasm. I wasn't able to keep it retracted cause of the sensitivity. Since I went for a frenulectomy and permanent retraction for 5 months now I don't feel any need to cover the head afterwards anymore. I can put it straight back in my trunks. That's shelter enough for my glans. ^^
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Argon on 2020-05-23 08:32:50
I used to feel a strong urge to cover my glans after masturbating.  It took a while and some effort to get past it but now I never put it forward. My foreskin remains retracted 24/7.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: otter_alex on 2020-05-31 10:58:53
Not anymore - at this point I've been retracting long enough that any post-orgasm sensitivity isn't an issue. Generally speaking I find leaving it pulled back makes for easier cleaning up of ejaculate that might seep out as I soften up.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: mrpink on 2020-06-06 21:14:43
Mine stays back after orgasm until it goes completely soft, if I don't touch it.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: evisucamper on 2020-06-15 18:58:21
It depends on the intensity, if the process is too intense, I’ll pull it foreword and give the glans a bit of a rest
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: HisRoyalDudel on 2020-06-18 07:46:19
As a lubricant, butter has been found to be best over time, and I used to use a fat cream that is not so good on the skin in the long term.

Have you never tried KY Jelly or other store bought water based lubricants?? I just couldn't imagine rubbing butter on my cock?!
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: GarethUK on 2020-06-22 22:25:04
I always wank skinned back and lubed, and it was a big day for me when that deep need that others have mentioned to cover over as soon as I had cum (even if I'd been retracted for days beforehand) suddenly vanished. Now it feels perfectly natural to stay un-covered, and that special sensitivity after orgasm has become enjoyable to experience. I suppose, over time, our minds finally adjust to new ways in the same way as our bodies do.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: retreactor on 2020-06-23 10:01:23
Have you never tried KY Jelly or other store bought water based lubricants?? I just couldn't imagine rubbing butter on my cock?!

Strange as it may sound, butter might not be such a bad idea after all. It is all natural, no chemicals and aditives as in industrial products. And it is the rule of tumb, that what you can eat , you can put on your body, so why not use it on your cock? And I imagine it has very good lubricating properties, too.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Adekoner1 on 2020-07-27 17:49:09
I also struggle with this. Since I’m new to the retraction, it’s still very sensitive after I cum so I have to cover it.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: CuriousSkinner on 2020-07-29 15:53:20
I hadn't really thought about this until reading this poll. For me it really depends what I've been doing if you see what I mean, but mostly I'll pull it forward afterwards, it's kind of instinctive.

Specifically when masturbating I still mix it up between being pulled back or using my foreskin. For me there is something about cumming using the foreskin that I still like, but if I do go for it pulled back then I will still go back for cover for some reason! Perhaps it's sensitivity, I don't enjoy carrying on tugging as info cum, I like to stop and enjoy it so maybe that's related and changes as you pull back more?
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Kylar on 2020-07-29 17:31:18
I hadn't really thought about this until reading this poll. For me it really depends what I've been doing if you see what I mean, but mostly I'll pull it forward afterwards, it's kind of instinctive.

Specifically when masturbating I still mix it up between being pulled back or using my foreskin. For me there is something about cumming using the foreskin that I still like, but if I do go for it pulled back then I will still go back for cover for some reason! Perhaps it's sensitivity, I don't enjoy carrying on tugging as info cum, I like to stop and enjoy it so maybe that's related and changes as you pull back more?

it's a very different experience to get off with the skin, get off without retracting at all, get off jerking the retracted skin on the shaft without covering at all, and get off by rubbing the uncovered head directly — I like the first and third of these a lot, but the other two are pretty interesting sometimes too
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: guest3599 on 2020-07-29 18:00:28
I think I discovered my foreskin could retract after wanking in the shower. When my erection went down the foreskin somehow randomly folded itself like you get with the spoon method. I didn't notice until I got dressed and felt the head rubbing against my underpants, and I really liked the sensation so I figured out how to fold the skin deliberately. So no, I don't feel the need to cover up after orgasm. If I'm tucked I'll loose the tuck when I get an erection, but afterwards I don't worry what happens. Sometimes it retracts like the spoon method, sometimes it just bunches up behind the glans, sometimes it covers the glans.

The other day I woke up with the foreskin bunched up, and a really dried-out glans. I'd evidently got a boner in the night, and when it had gone down my foreskin had retracted itself.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: guest3393 on 2020-08-07 00:50:14
Every time I have an orgasm I lose all my motivation to continue being pulled back, does anyone have tips to stop having this urge ?
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Kylar on 2020-08-07 01:05:31
Every time I have an orgasm I lose all my motivation to continue being pulled back, does anyone have tips to stop having this urge ?

Time.  Really, the more I've spent pulled back (and the less extra sensitivity there is at/after ejaculation) the easier it is for me to keep it pulled back afterwards.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Hazeleye on 2020-08-07 02:30:16
Every time I have an orgasm I lose all my motivation to continue being pulled back, does anyone have tips to stop having this urge ?

The orgasm satisfies the sex drive urge temporarily. Being pulled back does involve that drive. In your case you may be so satisfied that being back is now not erotic in any way but has a negative effect afterward. Best to keep hanging in there and as Kyler has indicated to stay with it and maybe things will get better!
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: jupiterscaptain on 2020-08-09 03:09:39
I don't pull it back. I'm new on this thread.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Tomnom27 on 2020-08-09 09:38:33
Every time I have an orgasm I lose all my motivation to continue being pulled back, does anyone have tips to stop having this urge ?
I actually have this same exact problem, what i recommend is just almost forcing yourself to continue and after a while it will become natural, i believe we only get this de-motivation in the early stages of retraction
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Tomnom27 on 2020-08-09 09:43:09
I never had the urge to cover my glans after ejaculating. That's probably because by the time of my first wet orgasm I'd already been skinned back permanently for a couple of years. I started at the age of 11.

did your parents encourge you to start skinning back at such a young age? or was it your own decison? or maybe did it just naturally stay skinned back and you just left it alone? sorry for so many questions im just curious how you got started at such a young age.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Hazeleye on 2020-08-09 15:18:58
I don't pull it back. I'm new on this thread.

Have you never tried having an exposed glans? If not, it will be sensitive at first but after gradual exposure you will become adapted and it will be normal with an awareness feeling.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Jules on 2020-09-26 19:08:08
I felt that urge for covering or giving up after cum just in the first weeks.Now it's absolutely natural to stay retracted even after orgasm.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: TipsOut on 2020-10-18 21:48:43
I can go either way after orgasm. Is is sensitive, or no I feel “done” afterward? Yes, but if I just pull it back, I don’t even think about it. After cleaning up after my wife and I are done, I’m not usually pulled back, but I will pull it back again if I think about it shortly afterward.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: rubbercock on 2021-04-06 03:19:50
did your parents encourge you to start skinning back at such a young age? or was it your own decison? or maybe did it just naturally stay skinned back and you just left it alone? sorry for so many questions im just curious how you got started at such a young age.

My parents never encouraged me to skin back at all, and I wasn't able to until the age of 11. It took me almost until then to realise that my foreskin was meant to retract but it was the type that's only just long enough to cover the glans without any overhang while also having a very narrow opening. After some time playing with it and gently stretching I did manage to retract my foreskin and to all intents and purposes it stayed back from them on. There were a few weeks during which it spent time both forwards and back before it settled and during that time I would encourage it back at every opportunity, so yes, it was my decision but it really didn't take me a lot of effort. And I loved it. It felt amazing, right from the start, and very distracting at times. And it looked wonderful, just like the cocks in the porn magazines we used to pass round at school, which is where I got the idea from in the first place as there was no Internet back then. I though it looked very grown up and I felt that I must be the only boy doing it!

The young age aspect is significant, I think, because once I reached puberty my penis outgrew my foreskin and it remained very short and permanently retracted for the next 20 years. In fact, by the time I was 14 or so there was no way to get it to stay forward even if I wanted to. I didn't want to, of course, but I nevertheless experimented and found it quite impossible to get it to stay over my glans. It covered about a third of it and rolled back as soon as I let go. Over the years I stretched my frenulum so that when I held it back tightly the tension was even all round, with no extra pull from the frenulum.

My glans was permanently exposed throughout my teens and twenties during which time anyone who saw it and commented assumed I was loosely circumcised, which wasn't true until I chose to be circumcised at 31. It was a long journey but I finally got where I wanted to be. It was the looseness of the shaft skin and the wrinkles that I wanted to get rid of and in return I gained the scar that I'd always wanted.

There's a little more information and a bigger version of my avatar photo on my introduction page (https://pulledback.org/index.php?topic=1033.msg9380#msg9380). I'm happy to answer questions, but I don't visit this site all that often so don't be disappointed if you don't get a replay for a few months.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: PermanetlyBareKnob on 2021-05-05 03:10:19
I also struggled for years with urge to pull the skin forward after orgasm, and even posted on the first page of this very thread, but I’m happy to report it’s no longer a problem for me!  I’m not quite sure what made the difference, but now I not only do I not have to resist the urge.  I don’t even feel it anymore.

One thing that has changed that might have helped is I now masturbate exclusively with my foreskin fully retracted, and never pull it back and forth over my glans.  And I’ve also found that my foreskin stays retracted on its own without any folding or tape.  Whatever it is, it has really helped me achieve my goal of being permanently retracted, even during and after masturbation!
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: Gopherbear on 2021-06-01 03:01:53
No urge to cover after going off but I do find it’s hard to stay retracted after sex cause my dicks all slippery, normally stay back over night but if I get some it usually falls forward while I sleep.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: sauravmitra on 2021-06-03 05:59:17
I felt that urge but try not to cover it...after some time there is no prob
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: teo on 2021-07-14 16:43:22
I'm rolled back permanently for 4 months with the help of ring .
Before I tried to keep it rolled back, but it was always rolling forward with the clothes.

And I had always kept it forward after cumming, I never felt any urge to cover it.
Even when it was often rolling forward,  I couldn't bear to be touch but I never felt the urge to cover.
In opposit, I felt better with the sensation of the glan free and the corona exposed feeling the fresh air.

Now that I'm permanently rolled back, the feeling of the glan free and the corona exposes is more intense and I can bear to be touch on my glan.

Mainly it stays back after sex, but I always check to be sure that it didn't rolled forward accidently.
Title: Re: Pulling skin back over after orgasm
Post by: scoobydoo on 2021-07-18 17:44:43
Mine remains retracted after orgasm. I masturbate dry with skin staying back. Once flaccid again I put the metal glans dual ball ring used during the day back on.