Bare Headed At Dinner

[John]

Lately I had supper with some new nudist friends. I was pulled back from start to finish. In my 17 years as a nudist this was the first time I've been socially nude from start to finish with my glans, in fact, totally peeled and exposed and on view to the world. On the one hand my opposition to R.I.C. (i.e., routine infant circumcision) invites me to be pulled down/natural for at least some part of each naturist event, if only to show baby-circumcision-crazy Americans what a whole adult penis looks like. On the other hand... I love being pulled back! My time being back has inspired my possible total circumcision. Pulled-back or (maybe?!) adult circ'd, does anyone hesitate in social situations about going through with things? Does anyone go between being exposed and loving it, and still wanting to make a protest again a largely wholesale, unthinking, and recent American custom? Pulled back or cut, I know I appreciate having been given this option when so many had it stolen from them. Yet... I'm done with my foreskin. Thoughts?

[Kylar]

I'm always sad when people feel like they need to remove their perfectly functional foreskin just because they enjoy being pulled back. I feel like that's a win for the circumcision side and it shouldn't be winning.

[John]

Thanks, Kylar. I get what you're saying. Besides my desire to protest R.I.C., I feel that elective adult circumcision is an insult to all those men restoring their foreskins. Nevertheless, from being someone who was horrified by anything to do with circumcision just a few months ago, I have totally changed, and changed directly because of being pulled back. Of course all the medical reasons for circs are nonsense and moonshine, but if being retracted has been this good I think about what a decent high and tight might be like. I guess, "Be careful what you wish for." I never would have thought nine months into my retraction that I would have seen such a sea change, much less that I'd consider getting snipped myself. Heck, I nearly called for an estimate the other day!

[hung.part.timer]

I actually do think A LOT about which guys see me in the locker-room sporting it pulled back. There's just a type of american guy that is cut and thinks everyone else is cut and has never seen an intact dick, and I like them seeing my foreskin so I may cover and slowly retract while I'm drying off so that they can see how our things work. For other uncut guys seeing me, I don't mind since I'm certain they can tell exactly what's going on.

On a slightly different note, this retraction play is still about the best of two options and not a preparation to get circed. I just don't think it's the same thing with the same results as getting cut.

I hope the nudists enjoyed the view and that they'll ask you about your practice next time you join them

[nycguy016]

John, it's funny you posted this.  I have been thinking about the exact same thing.  (I belong to a swim club where the showers and saunas are basically all nude, but I'm not sure that's the reason I was thinking of this.)  I, too, am staunchly against RIC -- I consider it a serious, systemic human rights violation that very few people seem to seriously consider.  I'm thankful I've gotten to explore and play with my "whole body" i.e. my foreskin.  And I have enjoyed teaching some people about intact members (males and female friends verbally, and ladies I've dated by demonstration).

But I love being pulled back -- I love the look and the feel of my head exposed, and I love using the tape method near my base so that I'm "forced" to be exposed.  I prefer watching male porn actors that are cut.  And I, too, reached a point where I even tried to look up an estimate!  (The clinic I was looking at basically wanted my contact info before they'd give it to me, so I stopped at that point.)

Anyway, it's good to hear that someone is in the same boat.  I didn't think I'd be thinking like this either.  If I were to do it, I'd go high and loose though -- I want to keep as much inner foreskin as possible, and also keep some shaft movement.  Ideally, I'd actually want to remove like an inch or two of skin from the base, but that doesn't seem to be possible.

[hung.part.timer]

@nycguy016 - there is a technique to remove foreskin from the base that I've read about online, but I've never seen a testimonial or results so may be just a myth. I think it's called a sleeve resectioning....

[Kylar]

@nycguy016 - there is a technique to remove foreskin from the base that I've read about online, but I've never seen a testimonial or results so may be just a myth. I think it's called a sleeve resectioning....

I think I've seen it on a porn site from a Korean user, I asked him what was up because I didn't really see a scar but his skin was tightly pulled back, and he told he had some shaft skin removed.

[hung.part.timer]

I think I've seen it on a porn site from a Korean user, I asked him what was up because I didn't really see a scar but his skin was tightly pulled back, and he told he had some shaft skin removed.

Would love to see - any links or search terms I can look up?

[zxcoleman]

Would love to see - any links or search terms I can look up?

Google Cosmetic Proximal Circumcision, there is a doctor in CA that apparently performs circumcision at the base of the penis:  https://socalcircumcision.com/circumcision-california/cosmetic-circumcision/#cosmetic-proximal-circumcision 

[evadjams]

Yep, another one here. Staunchly against RIC, but totally intrigued by the possibility of getting the big snip. I'm also way way more attracted to female partners that prefer circ. and are pro-circ. Go figure!

[thesevenpointfive]

Google Cosmetic Proximal Circumcision, there is a doctor in CA that apparently performs circumcision at the base of the penis:  https://socalcircumcision.com/circumcision-california/cosmetic-circumcision/#cosmetic-proximal-circumcision

This is called sleeve  in section, where they cut the skin from the bottom and pull the rest down to do the cir, it is rare to see it