As I'm new on this forum, I'd like to show you my process from the start and over and extensive period of time if I succeed ! And of course I would like to get all advices !
I'm a grower, from 7cm to 15-16cm. My foreskin is quite loose and long. At rest it stretches for 5cm over the glans and hard it almost hides it (1cm beneath). I've had multiple frenulum tears and a frenuloplasty, but the surgeon did not cut the frenulum entirely so when pulling back it does not stay if I move or with underwears. As I have a lot of skin, pulling back when soft implies a lot of skin to hold and my corona is not that big ....
June 2021 : various fitting of material to keep the skin backwards : scrunchies, rubbers, spoon method with lube, clothes peg, sticking plaster ... Nothing suited me.
I tried some silicone things and it was much more pleasant : I cut off the vibro part of a vibrating ring I had. It is a total fit when hard, but soft, it slips over when pushed by my skin.
06/05/20201 : as I would not find at home a proper item and that my skin leaps over the rings, I ordered various proper penis rings from aliexpress as I found out there was :
1.
https://www.aliexpress.com/item/4001286793142.html : soft breathable material, 3 three rings and 2 sheaths. The sheaths may be the better for the purpose but I hope it's not too tight for the larger one is 22mm and my neck of glans is 25mm, foreskin is 27-28mm, a lot more since it has swollen quite much.
2.
https://www.aliexpress.com/item/4000628345514.html : will see but may be the best and comfy ring. The size seems ok, scarcely too large. Hoping my skin will not go over it ...
3.
https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005001993193158.html : simple rings but the size seems to be good unless it squeezes too much
Due to arrive this week or the next.
06/11/2021 2pm : back from work and I found a workaround : before receipt I am waiting pulled back with baby bottle teats that I cut (cf. the picture).
When I measure, my neck is 25mm, but I did not except that when very idle, not with my dick in hand, it was less, almost 22mm ...
So on 3 teats I cut at 25mm, it was too loose each time, so it slips at desk or sports, I'm a looser ^^ I need to pull it back frequently, very annoying.
The worst is that feeling it may slips off at everytime so it is kind of stressful (I don't want to go back and stop the keratinisation process so it's day and night !).
Also, the silicone is a bit harsh, it may rub more and it aches a little bit when mooving.
I noticed several things :
- I wear boxers, with cotton ones, the ring slides easily so no problem. With synthetic one that are tighter, it strains more and pull it off ... The skin pressure does not help it.
- It somewhat arouses me for I have pre-cum these days, it will stop when desensitised ? How long does it takes ?
- I ride biked and motorbikes and it is quite a pain in the ass now for it won't stay back or it is compressed a lot ... Advices guys to stay back ?
- When my thighs are squeezed (sitting, leaning, ...), my balls go up so it pushes up my skin and makes the ring leap ... So would need to squeeze it tighter, advices ?
- When it is cold, like in the water, I'm very ... small ... so hard to keep it.
- Big swelling under the neck for 2cm on the foreskin, it stings/aches a little bit, hope it will soothes quickly
How long does it takes to swell back ?!
- Very hard to begin to pee. Even if it is not squeezing my uretra a lot, I need to push, it is not natural, hope it won't harm someting ? I can't remove it in public at the urinal lol !
- I was not strong smelling but now no smell at all ! Even if I peed pulled back for 2 years (less smell already), it is quite good and my wife especially likes
My wife ... I announced her my choice to last longer and for esthetics/pleasure for me. She listened to me and accept it naturally as it is my choice, I was very well surprised ! It may involve a lot more complicity
Here are some pic of the first day and if my post interests you, I will try to update it with pics regularly ?
Do not hesitate to share your journey !