Are there any gay guys here? How your partner reacted to pulling back of your foreskin and maybe you convinced him to retraction as well?
Hey, yeah gay here.
Actually I got into pulling back because my ex was circumcised, and his penis looked hot.
I wanted to look more like him, but he actually loved my foreskin lol.
gay here too,
though i don't have partner at the moment, Ive been with three guys each of them loved it.
i even got the last guy into trying it, he like it but unsure if hes still going
Quote from: kralendijk on 2021-08-14 18:42:48
Hey, yeah gay here.
Actually I got into pulling back because my ex was circumcised, and his penis looked hot.
I wanted to look more like him, but he actually loved my foreskin lol.
Maybe we are attracted to something we miss. What you think? ;) That could explain your partner's attraction :) I really like cut penises but I feel sorry for cut guys because they usually did not have possibility to choose wheter the want to be cut or not just after delivery.
Also gay. Funnily enough my partner is circd and be isn't really keen on me pulling back. I think if I said I had a preference it would actually be uncut rather than cut or even pulled back in terms of esthetics. But I enjoy having the best of both worlds.
i am not gay, but certainly wouldn't pass the oportunity to check out other penises.
I'm gay, most if not all of my partners found it silly that I do it, so I usually didn't when we were together (and back in the day I wasn't keeping it pulled back too much in the first place). I also seemed to end up with people with tight(ish) foreskins. Some friends with benefits were loose or even short foreskin, but the boyfriends somehow always tight. I wasn't specifically fishing for them tho!
Gay, and going on 8 1/2 years married. Husband is high and tight cut, very very nice dick IMO. I prefer cut dicks personally but I/we have been with plenty of uncut guys (we are open). A couple with varying degrees of phimosis, which I felt very badly for. I didn't have the heart to bring it up. Just let them be if they are happy. I am less about the dick and more about the personality. The vast majority we have been with as a couple are loving that it's the best of both worlds, cut and uncut to play with. Foreskin seems to be like flies to man hoes. I dunno... Whatever floats your boat!
Gay and proud here as well. Every dick is waaay hotter when the head is exposed. Which, I believe, is the reason I like mine more this way. I've never told anyone about this habit of mine btw.
Absolutely not gay, nor is my boyfriend. Yet very much in love for nine years (at least most of the time!) and happy with the tool kits we have. Both as different as they are. Thank god it's not a turn on all day. I could only wish all men would be non gay like that ;-)
Quote from: ThePiemel on 2021-11-19 18:01:11
Absolutely not gay, nor is my boyfriend. Yet very much in love for nine years (at least most of the time!) and happy with the tool kits we have. Both as different as they are. Thank god it's not a turn on all day. I could only wish all men would be non gay like that ;-)
... huh?
Quote from: soundsgreat87 on 2021-11-19 19:20:47
... huh?
Comparing tools does not make you gay. Nor speaking about them. At home we speak freely, because we are two men together. No problem sharing info on a public forum. But not chasing for a date. We both do not feel part of any political or religious movement though. So no. Not gay. Just two happy boys with a penis (I actually like his more than mine!). Without prejudice over whatever preferences or what makes your clock tick. No problem with female curiosity either, just as long as I don't need to be labelled or stickered. We are not an xtube episode. We love. Every day.
"Gay" means "homosexual." You're in a relationship with another man (you have a boyfriend). So, you're gay. Right???
I'm not sure what you're trying to say :o
not sure about all the discussion about but with regards to the question: of the uncircumcised men i've had see my penis they were both quite a bit older. 60+. The one was a european and the other was mexican. The european I said "hey do you ever keep your skin pulled back just walking around?" and he said that he did and that its erotic and fun but he doesn't like how it gets dried up. He had a lot of pearly papules too which was interesting. The mexican guy was the first uncircumcised guy i fucked and despite my best efforts he didn't really have a big interest in foreskin. I was super excited because he was the first guy with one that I fucked but he was rather apathetic towards it and didn't have much to talk about in regards to it. I asked if he ever had the skin back just for fun and he didn't really understand the concept, saying he only pulled it back to pee and clean.
@soundsgreat87 I think @ThePiemel was just joking or trolling. At least, I hope for him.
Or maybe ThePiemel and his boyfriend are both bisexual :D
I think ThePiemel is making the point that labeling and stereotyping people based on sexual practices is absurd.
Quote from: PBnaturist on 2021-11-21 11:52:05
I think ThePiemel is making the point that labeling and stereotyping people based on sexual practices is absurd.
Exactly. When I was a kid we would try and piss our names in the snow together. That did not make any of us gay. It happened naturally.
What I do for Christmas is actually non of anybodies business. Nor should I apologize for it or explain myself. To be fully honest and frank, I can't. I'd have to make up a story.
What I do like is sharing information. Women, in general, seem to have less trouble with this as men do. We all are a bit ridiculous about that area, some worse than others though.
Quote from: PBnaturist on 2021-11-21 11:52:05
I think ThePiemel is making the point that labeling and stereotyping people based on sexual practices is absurd.
I don't think there's anything inherently bad, stupid, or mean about there being heterosexual and homosexual relationships and calling them such. It makes conversation easier. There's a bunch of guys here in heterosexual relationships and there's even a topic about their partners — and their partners' reactions, interests etc. in the retraction of the guy in question is markedly different than people's same sex partners' reactions, interests, etc. In particular that the latter can themselves engage in it, or have personal interest or disinterest in it, because they have the... uh... tooling for it, and therefore a question as raised by the OP makes sense to be asked and a relevant topic to talk about.
* for the sake of argument let's not complicate things with genders, I'm talking about physical bodies and the presence or absence of dangly bits.
At what point does "labelling" become useful? at what point is it absurd? Why is it absurd to talk about gay (male-male, whatever, you know what I mean) relationships, but why isn't it absurd to give different names to, dunno, paint colours, birds, geometrical shapes?
I concede maybe "absurd" was not a good choice of word! ;D
But if you think about it we are all just people, and no 1 person is inherently 1 thing, so why apply a label and compartmentalise them?
For the record I have never had sex with a woman and at no point has it even crossed my mind, but who knows what the future holds! ;)
Quote from: PBnaturist on 2021-11-21 20:52:00
I concede maybe "absurd" was not a good choice of word! ;D
But if you think about it we are all just people, and no 1 person is inherently 1 thing, so why apply a label and compartmentalise them?
For the record I have never had sex with a woman and at no point has it even crossed my mind, but who knows what the future holds! ;)
Same here!
I once literally stopped at the front door of a girlfriend (nearly in!). She was very nice, I could not fake it. Not much later ended up with a bar keeper in bed and knew it for sure. This is me. My boyfriend other story. He had a girlfriend and lived in a shared house. But always went to the guy in the other bedroom. They did not break up but decided to stop playing theater.
With my boyfriend however we get more and more comfy. He walks out of the shower, I see that. But it is not a turn on, not a sexual thing. It is him with everything in place. Same in reverse. No looks like if "I would be after anything". A very pleasant me. A very pleasant him. But not for the public street where tastes and flavors differ of course. Why would we?
When living like that, being happy with that, I rather say no when asked if we are gay. Except for certain social situations. Like I shut up when a man's wife comes back from shopping. Because it is his wife. When my man just finished working for maybe 10 or 12 hours, I expect the same. So then it is really relevant to me. And absurd when people do not understand this. Although absurd might indeed be a bit rude. You can call me gay. Or any other word. But not all the time.
Quote from: ThePiemel on 2021-11-21 22:34:48
Same here!
I once literally stopped at the front door of a girlfriend (nearly in!). She was very nice, I could not fake it. Not much later ended up with a bar keeper in bed and knew it for sure. This is me. My boyfriend other story. He had a girlfriend and lived in a shared house. But always went to the guy in the other bedroom. They did not break up but decided to stop playing theater.
With my boyfriend however we get more and more comfy. He walks out of the shower, I see that. But it is not a turn on, not a sexual thing. It is him with everything in place. Same in reverse. No looks like if "I would be after anything". A very pleasant me. A very pleasant him. But not for the public street where tastes and flavors differ of course. Why would we?
When living like that, being happy with that, I rather say no when asked if we are gay. Except for certain social situations. Like I shut up when a man's wife comes back from shopping. Because it is his wife. When my man just finished working for maybe 10 or 12 hours, I expect the same. So then it is really relevant to me. And absurd when people do not understand this. Although absurd might indeed be a bit rude. You can call me gay. Or any other word. But not all the time.
this is very beautiful. have you ever tried writing poetry you have a very nice style to writing.
lol...@soundsgreat87 it's an old English joke....i'm not gay, but my boyfriend is...lol just a joke, and he is right..
Quote from: camchain on 2021-11-22 08:03:38
lol...@soundsgreat87 it's an old English joke....i'm not gay, but my boyfriend is...lol just a joke, and he is right..
The first thing I thought of was that Monty Python sketch, haha
Quote from: Will15aussie on 2022-08-10 14:46:36
I have fwb of both genders so bi but I'm exploring heaps so not really stuck on any real title beyond let's explore
I thank that everyone is on a spectrum. I'm definitely gay, but I had some good sex with women in the past.
I am gay and happily married. My husband hasn't really commented, but knows I like to keep it back.