my experience and thoughts

[JPOldman1961]

Adolescence generally begins at age 10 and ends at age 15（18）.
The rapid growth of the cock is also at this time.
If the foreskin and the glans adhere to each other during this period, it will be difficult to expose the glans during normal times when the child becomes an adult.
If possible, not only should you resolve adhesions before puberty, but you should also get into the habit of exposing the glans on a regular basis.
 Hand job  is a useful practice for breaking adhesions. I think that no matter how young you are, if you take the right method, it will be harmless.

My grandfather was an understanding man.  I started hand job at the age of 5. My mother and grandmother criticized me, but he understood me. Not only did he encourage me to masturbate, but he also instructed me to keep my foreskin up after the act, after urinating, and when I bathed. No special equipment was required.

About half a year later, half of the glans was always exposed, and at the age of 9 it was completely exposed, and at the age of 15 the foreskin no longer covered the glans.

adult advice(preferably before puberty). I think whether or not you were advised to live a "hand job and pulled back life" when you were young will have a big impact on the shape of your cock when you grow up.

[camchain]

Hello. What a great story and yes, i believe that starting young is a good thing. It certainly help's and wish i had done it when i was a boy. It wasn't till i was 16 that i discovered that that. but sticking with it helped and i am fine now and been permanently pulled back for years now.

[JPOldman1961]

One of the misconceptions of many Japanese people is that "children's cocks are completely covered in skin, but when they grow up to adulthood, the glans are completely exposed."

According to medical statistics for adult cocks, 40% of cocks have fully exposed glans. 60% of cocks are exposed to some extent. About 1% of cocks do not expose the glans at all.

In normal times, the majority of cocks have incompletely exposed glans and are "normal", but Japanese people have long hated this state as "a man's shame".

Since when did such values take root in the Japanese people?

Even for an adult, the cock with the glans completely exposed in normal times is almost certainly the result of "body modification". And the act is often completed by the age of 18. The sooner the better, the more effective it will be.

What triggered the habit of peeling off the foreskin? There are few examples of Japanese people in the past who started thinking for themselves. Most start with advice from elders.

In modern Japan, the sense of values that thinks that a cock with a glans wrapped in foreskin is "embarrassing, disgraceful, and unmanly" is disappearing, so the younger generation's cock is overwhelmingly covered in foreskin compared to us old people.

Personally, I don't like this trend.

so that a large and muscular body feels more masculine than a thin and petite body,
We old Japanese people feel “adultness and masculinity” in a cock with a completely exposed glans。

[Johnny_V]

I think the correct term for this is "miemuki"?
Am i right?

[raj]

nice to have you here.please share more experience and thoughts of exposed glans.

[JPOldman1961]

Miemuki ・・Japanese sexsual word.  mie(vantity) + stripping(muki).

[JPOldman1961]

Young children rarely attempt to retract the foreskin on their own. I think it is established when adults give such values to children.
In old Japan, fathers, grandfathers, and neighbors were educators.
That era is over now.
It's easy. When urinating or bathing, remove the foreskin and store it in your pants. Just by having such a simple thing as a habit from an early age, it becomes a cock with the glans completely exposed for 24 hours.
And handjob is important for sufficient cock growth. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

Until I was about ten years old, I often took a bath with my grandfather. I wanted to know the envy and secrets every time I saw my grandfather's cock and balls. He started off with the fun of handjobs and fully talked about the importance of handjobs and the glans exposure. Although it is rare in other households, he even told me that the reason why a man has a cock is to insert the cock into the woman's hole and pour the "seeds" .

"Seeds" was difficult for a 5-6 year old boy, but he still appreciates his grandfather's sex education. In later years, I happened to witness his grandfather fucking his grandmother, and I was deeply moved by the scene where my grandfather's erect cock was deeply inserted into my grandmother's woman's hole.

[JPOldman1961]

This may be a famous story.
This is a story that was written in a Japanese weekly magazine.

Once upon a time, a French aristocrat wondered if a human being could fuck without being informed by anyone.
He bought a little boy and girl from poor farmers and gave them a good life and education. However, he was careful not to give them any knowledge about fucking. They found their method to handjobs, but at 30 they still couldn't find their method to fucking.

Animals can instinctively fuck without being taught by others.
But humans can't. Because fucking is not an instinct but a learnning.

I think that sex education is really important.
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[ThePiemel]

Great stories! Great penis by the way, how the skin is so nicely distributed over your shaft. Also very nice to hear how things go in Japanese culture. And among men in Japan. I am from the northern European culture. As a child was taken regularly to a specialist doctor. To take my weight, my height, but even that doctor never saw I had an extremely short frenulum breve and an extremely oversensitive glans.

[JPOldman1961]

For nearly 40 years, I have been teaching boys with these signs. The boys who live in my neighborhood who have been instructed by me bring new acquaintances to me. The first boy is already over 50 and has grandchildren.
In old Japan, there used to be a perverted man in the neighborhood who gladly offered sex education on behalf of his parents (hidden from his parents).
There is no such man in Japan anymore. If he was there, he would be treated like a criminal.

Little secret from their parents, the boys are addicted to the pleasures of handjobs and fear that something bad will happen with their handjob habit so quickly. I told the boys, you don't have to worry at all. Rather, I  instructed to pay attention to hygiene and implement it properly in order to become a fine man.

If you are conscious of the habit of peeling the foreskin and leaving it as it is, you can maintain the state that the glans is completely exposed as early as around 7 years old. Five years old was the earliest in my experience.
What I learned from my conversations with the boys was that maintaining glans exposure required a systematic change in the inner wall of the foreskin.

"Dry and Shrink"

Wearing underwear called briefs, which has a high moisturizing effect, will not be effective. It is preferable to wear undergarments that are breathable and wick away moisture. Then I realized that it would be better to use siccarol or paper that absorbs moisture to dry the inner wall of the peeled foreskin.

The easiest and least expensive method would be to roll toilet paper over the coronal groove. For boys under the age of 15, if more than 1/2 of the glans is exposed, about 70% of them will be fully exposed in about a year.

[JPOldman1961]

When a boy is born, father and grandfathers have to pay attention to their cocks. Really, a child carefully observe the cocks of his father and grandfathers, and grow up thinking about his own sex based on that.
In modern Japan, there are very few households where grandparents live together, and it is less common for children to bathe with their fathers and sleep in their parents' bedrooms when they are young.
Therefore, child do not come up with the idea of peeling off the foreskin by looking at his father or grandfather's cock, and adult advice is needed more than ever.
In the old days in Japan, when children reached the middle grades of elementary school, their would witness their parents fucking one by one, and would have a secret discussion with a close friend in the class.
In modern Japan, many children sleep in separate rooms with their parents from the time they are born, and many young people have never seen their parents fuck.
Fucking is a learned behavior. Which is more meaningful, learning through AV, reading books, or talking to friends, or learning from your immediate family?
When I talk to the boys, they say that they want to see their parents fuck just once, to be sure that they were born this way.

I never ended up seeing my parents fuck. However, even though we weren't in the same bedroom, I witnessed my grandparents fuck many times, and certainly saw my grandfather's erect cock inserted into and out of my grandmother's hole, and learned to fuck. Did. Also, my grandfather inserted his cock into my grandmother's anus. I thought that anal fuck is not an act that you can absolutely discover by yourself without being taught by others.
Grandfather is 82 years old.  grandmother passed away at the age of 85, but I'm still grateful to both of them.

In the old days in Japan, there were known "48 patterns of intercourse positions", but my grandfather used only 3 of them. When I was young, I thought that my grandfather was an unsatisfactory man, but in the end, I also followed his way. After all, my family will continue to pass down this method from generation to generation. This is our "family tradition".

48 pattern excerpts


family tradition excerpts

[lvprcm]

Adolescence generally begins at age 10 and ends at age 15（18）.
The rapid growth of the cock is also at this time.
If the foreskin and the glans adhere to each other during this period, it will be difficult to expose the glans during normal times when the child becomes an adult.
If possible, not only should you resolve adhesions before puberty, but you should also get into the habit of exposing the glans on a regular basis.
 Hand job  is a useful practice for breaking adhesions. I think that no matter how young you are, if you take the right method, it will be harmless.

My grandfather was an understanding man.  I started hand job at the age of 5. My mother and grandmother criticized me, but he understood me. Not only did he encourage me to masturbate, but he also instructed me to keep my foreskin up after the act, after urinating, and when I bathed. No special equipment was required.

About half a year later, half of the glans was always exposed, and at the age of 9 it was completely exposed, and at the age of 15 the foreskin no longer covered the glans.

adult advice(preferably before puberty). I think whether or not you were advised to live a "hand job and pulled back life" when you were young will have a big impact on the shape of your cock when you grow up.

I enjoyed reading about your experience growing up and learning directly or indirectly how to keep the foreskin retracted.

Although we're not of the same culture, I am in the U.S. and my parents were immigrants from Mexico making me a first generation Mexican-American. My parents were fairly opposite of each other when it came to anything that could be construed as sexual in nature. I learned early from the baths that my mother would give and the showers I partook occasionally with my dad during my early years, maybe ages 4-6 or there about. My mother was very reserved. On occasion for unknown reasons while she bathed me I would get these spontaneous erections, mostly when she'd ask me to stand up while she soaped and scrubbed up my body. Although she didn't say anything, here facial expression said it all and would ask me to sit down in the tub. My dad was a shower guy and if pressed for time, we needed to go out for dinner or visits, I would shower with him. My father never said anything directly to me but his actions both indirectly and directly seem to give the guide of how my body and penis should look and work. I occasionally also had these spontaneous erections during these events and he didn't ever say anything or give a facial expression of disapproval.

I don't know how I learned to retract my foreskin, I just know it was retractable from earliest memories, possible age 4 or 5. Perhaps my dad showed me at some point and just don't remember, nevertheless, at that age we lived in a one bathroom house and he'd often urinate with the door open and his foreskin was always behind the glans, once he was done he would shake his penis or milk out any urine left but always the foreskin retracted. I attempted to follow suit when I would go to the bathroom and although I could pull back the foreskin it would not say retracted, more often I'd end up with an erection and the foreskin would stay retracted then until the erection went down.

I always assumed that somehow my penis would eventually end up looking like my dad when I got as old as he was but my assumption was proven wrong. I had seen other boys naked, mostly relatives, cousins and few friends but all seem to have the same style of penis as mine which made everything seem perfectly normal. However in 2nd grade, I got to see a boy who seemed to have penis that looked a lot like how my dad's was. I later learned that some and in my area most of the boys were circumcised. Having observed this, I began to double efforts and finding ways to keep my foreskin retracted. My main effort was based on what I could find that could possible do the trick. I'd pull back in the bathroom while flaccid and then pulling my underwear as tightly up as possible seem to hold it for a few minutes but even then the foreskin would find its way to start rolling over the glans. I had never thought of using other means like rings or devices to see if it kept the foreskin back. Although, I didn't know it then, the key impediment of keeping my foreskin retracted involved still having a coronal adhesion at the rim of the glans.

My exploration of my penis continued to evolve and by the time I was around 9 and from the bit of effort of kept doing keeping the foreskin retracted as best I could and I began to notice that the color of my glans and the surface texture had changed a bit it no longer was a pinkish white color but more greyish pink. In another event, I was still 9 then, that event surprised me immensely and it occurred during a prolonged bath I was taking. Somehow I started to develop and erection and my foreskin started to pull back slightly and so I just organically thought of just pulling my foreskin back as far back as it would go to fully expose the glans and then releasing it. As mentioned, the foreskin stayed retracted while retracted but I continued to  tug on the shaft skin down towards the base of my penis and then release, tug and release. It wasn't painful but the tugging coupled with the bath seem to cause a rip in the adhesion I had. In my excitement I continued to do the tug and release until the entire foreskin pulled away from the coronal rim. For the first time, I got to see my entire glans along with the inner lining of the foreskin. This ended up IMO to be the milestone needed in retraction progression. I soon discovered how much more readily my foreskin was staying retracted although not permanently, probably about 30-40 percent of the time. The one thing is I could walk around "flaccid" with my foreskin retracted for sometime until either my penis shrunk too much or too much movement would cause it start slipping down.   

You make a great point that I can totally connect with and that is that the adhesion can play a critical part in the retraction process and I think the earlier the adhesion can be removed the more likely you will find success at keeping the foreskin retracted. This is one step I wished I had done sooner but despite all the visual, direct and indirect information my dad had given, I didn't connect to this until later in my development.

[lvprcm]

For nearly 40 years, I have been teaching boys with these signs. The boys who live in my neighborhood who have been instructed by me bring new acquaintances to me. The first boy is already over 50 and has grandchildren.
In old Japan, there used to be a perverted man in the neighborhood who gladly offered sex education on behalf of his parents (hidden from his parents).
There is no such man in Japan anymore. If he was there, he would be treated like a criminal.

Little secret from their parents, the boys are addicted to the pleasures of handjobs and fear that something bad will happen with their handjob habit so quickly. I told the boys, you don't have to worry at all. Rather, I  instructed to pay attention to hygiene and implement it properly in order to become a fine man.

If you are conscious of the habit of peeling the foreskin and leaving it as it is, you can maintain the state that the glans is completely exposed as early as around 7 years old. Five years old was the earliest in my experience.
What I learned from my conversations with the boys was that maintaining glans exposure required a systematic change in the inner wall of the foreskin.

"Dry and Shrink"

Wearing underwear called briefs, which has a high moisturizing effect, will not be effective. It is preferable to wear undergarments that are breathable and wick away moisture. Then I realized that it would be better to use siccarol or paper that absorbs moisture to dry the inner wall of the peeled foreskin.

The easiest and least expensive method would be to roll toilet paper over the coronal groove. For boys under the age of 15, if more than 1/2 of the glans is exposed, about 70% of them will be fully exposed in about a year.

JP I am highly curious how the rolled toilet paper works. What holds the roll together to make the ring?

[JPOldman1961]

>>lvprcm

Just cut the paper to a reasonable length, wrap it around the coronal groove and tie it on the underside.

[JPOldman1961]

I am very interested in trying to make a permanent glans exposure using various devices in the forum here.
In Japan, a variety of devices are sold , but few people have obtained the desired results.
The reason is that the device user is only an adult over the age of 20, and after the age of 25, I think there is no permanent change in the foreskin.
However, I think there may be cases where the elderly can be effective due to racial differences. I will read the experience examples at the forum here with interesting.

Unfortunately, if we want a permanent foreskin shape change, I personally think that we will not get 100%results unless we are in the middle of our teens.

Japanese old man's cock with permanently exposed glans after 9 years old　↓