Masturbation techniques

[4toA2]

Currently using a combo of spoon method and cock ring, and a ball stretcher (is that what they are called???) to stay retracted.

I want to be able to jerk off retracted without lube. However, my helmet doesn't like the friction. When I use lube, the cock rings and my tuck just come loose. My fren REALLY doesn't like stimulation, it just hurts, or maybe it's the way I'm doing it. I've tried jerking holding the middle the shaft, but it doesn't do much for me. I'd love to be able to cum fully retracted with my helmet fully exposed. Does anyone have any tips or hints or techniques? 

[Nivek]

If you're using spoon method, the inner foreskin is not exposed. It will be hard for you to cum from just glans stimulation! For me it is impossible...

I prefer to pull back the inner foreskin tightly down to masturbate...

[mjed]

I've not tried but not convinced that it would be impossible to cum if pulled back using the spoon method. The underside of my glans by the frenulum is incredibly sensitive to stimulation.  I accept stimulating the head alone with no skin movement could be challenging.....

[hung.part.timer]

Sounds like you'll need to desensitize a bit of everything to comfortable masturbate fully retracted.

Based on your setup, I'd advise that you use lube and you only stroke in the downward direction, trading hand over hand, as if you're penetrating endlessly. I bet you'll still feel some discomfort, but the more you practice this motion, the better it'll start to feel.

How does this sound to you?

[thesevenpointfive]

If you're using spoon method, the inner foreskin is not exposed. It will be hard for you to cum from just glans stimulation! For me it is impossible...

I prefer to pull back the inner foreskin tightly down to masturbate...

Yes this is a good method, fully retracted. You can train your head to harden up if you have to use lube, it will feel rough to start with.

[gayonlyporn]

I use a variation of the spoon method, but can now tuck under naturally. My foreskin pulls right down when hard so masturbate much like a cut guy. Much more working on the shaft (holding where the foreskin pulls back too) my glans are now much less sensitive, so can directly work the head. I can't remember the last time I wanked  without my foreskin pulled right back as it's much more satisfying now.

[JohnsonW]

Try baby powder or Mens talcum powder instead of lube. Keeps everything dry all day and you'll enjoy rubbing it in. Cover everything

[halfard]

Currently using a combo of spoon method and cock ring, and a ball stretcher (is that what they are called???) to stay retracted.

I want to be able to jerk off retracted without lube. However, my helmet doesn't like the friction. When I use lube, the cock rings and my tuck just come loose. My fren REALLY doesn't like stimulation, it just hurts, or maybe it's the way I'm doing it. I've tried jerking holding the middle the shaft, but it doesn't do much for me. I'd love to be able to cum fully retracted with my helmet fully exposed. Does anyone have any tips or hints or techniques?

With skin retractedtight,  I wrap finger and thumb round where shaft joins cock-head and tug, no rubbing  .. as a cut guy could do.

[Disco Stick]

@4toA2
I also wanted to feel like I was masturbating as though I was cut. But, For the longest time stroking my head with my foreskin pulled pack was SUPER sensitive - to the point of being painful.

As others have mentioned, bit of "training" was needed, focusing on the most problematic area first - my frenulum. To start with, I would pull my foreskin back as far as it would go until the fren was taut and hold it there with one hand. This would allow the fren to be part of the experience without direct stimulation. It also provided a second benefit - stretching. While holding my skin all the way back I would dry rub just the top of my glans. I would also tug with my other hand, essentially pulling the fren even tighter, but with gentle tugs. After several sessions using this method, try taking a bit of precum and lightly rubbing your fren. It will be be extremely sensitive, at first, but over time it will get less sensitive.

As Nivek pointed out, you may not cum using this method, but it will still feel good without feeling painful. However, the most beneficial aspect of this approach is getting your fren conditioned for direct stimulation. It may take a while to get to where you want to be, but this exercise has proven to work for me over time. I can now pull my skin all the way back and stroke my "simulated" cut cock either dry or wet and it feels completely amazing!

[PermanetlyBareKnob]

It took a long time of keeping my glans exposed full time before I could tolerate or even enjoy direct stimulation on my glans, with or without lube.  If that's something you want to do (and I recommend it!), you may need to have some patience while your glans adapts.

For masturbation, I recommend doing something that keeps your foreskin pulled back tight.  The simplest way is to just use one hand to hold the skin back at the base.  I personally find the tape method woks very well, with or without lube, though the tape often becomes detached after using lube.

Even before your glans is ready for direct stimulation, I really recommend the technique that halfard described, grabbing just behind your glans in a ring with your thumb and forefinger, and tugging a bit back and forth against the base of your glans, rather than sliding.

I'm curious about the issue with your fren.  Is your fren really tight?  Before mine tore/streched, it could be quite painfully sensitive when it was under tension.