Pulled back — living with a bare head

General Category => Polls => Topic started by: deeep on 2016-12-10 04:28:30

Title: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: deeep on 2016-12-10 04:28:30
What is your wife's / GF's opinion on your permanent retraction ,do they like to see the head uncovered 24/7.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: jdm on 2016-12-10 06:19:18
I've had a number of girlfriends over the years, and their reactions have run the gamut from thinking the practice is weird, to indifference, to liking it. My current girlfriend is very playful and seems to enjoy the variety. Which is great, because it has allowed me to experiment more. For example, I got to to try sex and BJs with the liquid latex method, several times. BTW, it worked great for sex. Not as good for hand-jobs, 'cause the rubber tends to deteriorate. She didn't like it that much for BJs, because the smell of the latex is a bit off-putting so close to her nose. But if I wear it like that all day, before we fool around, it kind of dissipates, and isn't that bad. And she does like working on the bare nob, with the skin held back tight by the latex. She does not notice as big a difference in the feel during sex as I do. She noticed some difference, but said it wasn't really better or worse, just different. And not even that different for her.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: camchain on 2016-12-10 07:53:34
No wife or girlfriend hear, and my partner is not bothered at all about it, so that's good for me, keep's me happy.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: soundsgreat87 on 2016-12-10 17:50:09
My boyfriend thought it was a bit silly at first but ended up liking it. He loves my cockhead so he's happy to be able to see it all the time ;D
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: bobenc0 on 2016-12-11 18:52:28
Well, I started retracting it permanently when I was already one + year with my GF, now my fiancee, she even got pregnant soon after I started :)
At first she was thinking it is a bit weird because it looks like a cut one and only muslims here are cut, which I am not. She said she never even saw a cut dick in her life.
Little by little she was getting used to it. before she really liked to play with my foreskin covering the head even putting some spit there to make it more slippery.
Now she loves to touch and fondle my glans completely dry even giving me dry hand jobs while she hold the foreskin pulled back as far as possible.
She now is not afraid to play with my dick as crazy as she wants because she knew it used to be very sensitive and tender and she had to be very gentle to not damage it. She also noticed the cleanliness and NO smell totally!
She probably only couple of times told me it feels better than before during sex ( probably when the skin stayed back during the whole act, she said " I really felt it a bit different" ) but most of the times it is almost no difference for her.
Couple of days ago I asked her if she already likes it like that more than before and she said yes because she got used to it's new look.
:)
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: Resqdave on 2016-12-12 19:58:53
Being in the US, mine was actually the first uncut dick my wife had seen or had any sex with.  So, she definitely prefers the look when I keep it pulled back.   I have asked her if she would prefer if I got circumcised and she says it doesn't matter to her.   As far as sex she says there is a definite difference in pleasure for her when I am pulled back, she can feel the rim of the glans better which is also preferable to me.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2017-01-07 11:38:17
Most of my GF have been indifferent, bar one, who only liked cut dicks, which was surprising for some on in the UK, She found the look and the feel to be better than foreskin and she would not have any uncut. She liked the look of mine and was interested on me keeping it back and she did not know guys did that.  She said it felt just like a cut guys dick as mine is now hard and dry. Thats the only GF who has made a comment
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: deeep on 2018-12-27 12:35:20
Need more answers to my old question...
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: Cj on 2018-12-27 14:57:43
I was never pulled back in our 1st 20 years of marriage, but one day I asked her if she preferred it pulled back or left forward and she said she would like it kept pulled back when I was naked.  That started my journey to being pulled back full time.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: FormerRetractor on 2018-12-27 15:41:00
I have yet to meet a woman who prefers the head covered with foreskin.  Whether circumcised or not, they prefer the head uncovered...
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: L on 2019-01-18 12:48:26
my wife favors me with a bare head. The look of a penis with a covered glans and especially with a longish foreskin that ends in a flair is not to her liking. Often when such a penis comes by - in the flesh or on screen - she makes a remark. I love her for that!
My first GF when I was at the tender age of 12 persuaded me to bare the head and keep it that way and so it started. Somewhere else on this forum I've mentioned this already just like that my mother then did not approve as it was not how it was meant to be. Thou shall not show a bare head. Funny, if you realize that a covered glans is considered insulting in some other cultures like in Japanese bath houses. So by this, the members of this forum are part of a sub-culture! Here in Europe the norm is hide the glans. Some even say the glans is an internal organ. An uncovered glans is only accepted for medical reasons or for religious reasons both thus minorities in the population. Voluntary denuding is an exception.
Over the years most of my girlfriends did not care much as long things were functioning. Only those GFs that were more daring themselves cared and preferred a bare nob's look and feel. Only one or two did not like the in their opinion excess skin and would prefer a cut.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: skinhead on 2019-01-22 13:25:37
A really good question - considering we would mostly have wife/partner/SO.
My wife says she doesn't mind either way. Although that bears out differently in bed, since we can be more sure of a mutual climax due to lower sensitivity of my glans
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: countrydirt on 2019-01-22 17:45:07
I'm the only uncut man my wife of 30 years has been with and she seems to still like it, although she does enjoy peeling it back and forth for a handjob and always peels it back for oral.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: TipsOut on 2020-07-23 02:12:31
I’ve never really asked my wife if she has a preference either way. I don’t think it really matters to her at all. When we get down to business, I usually am covered. I think it’s hot when she gets a hold of it and peels the skin down. She’ll leave it peeled back when I enter or for oral.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: joris1997 on 2020-07-27 14:27:11
My girlfriend does not really seem to care for the looks, but she did mention that she did already see a large difference in how long I last :$. She definately did say that she preferred it pulled back with that regard. Also in terms of smell, it looks cleaner dry to her and doesnt have a significant smell anymore.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: Adekoner1 on 2020-07-27 17:44:32
My partner prefers it pulled back, I think she likes more how it looks that way.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: supersonic on 2020-07-27 18:13:21
Actually it was my girlfriend who brought me to being pulled back 24/7.

For a long time I was retracting on and off, mostly being covered while staying with my GF, because I thought it would be somewhat awkward being pulled back in front of her.
Here in Germany you can actually see some guys in saunas or public baths being pulled back or even circumcised, but somehow i felt like my GF would be totally shocked by me being pulled back.

So around 2 or 3 months after we met, we laid naked in our bed, my foreskin still retracted from the things that happened before, when she sat down between my legs, closely inspecting my penis.
She told me that being retracted looked so much nicer and why i don't wear it that way all the time.
Little did she know that this was what i dreamt of the last years, but i never followed through with being full-time retracted because i thought that it was "the norm" for a German man to have a foreskin covering the glans.
This evening i told her that i will follow through with keeping it retracted as long as possible.
She was super happy about it and even asked if i personally want to get circumcised at some point in time if i really like being retracted over the next time. I told her that this was something i also thought about but let's see what the future brings and how i like being full-time retracted.



Fast forward to a few weeks ago.
After a heavy night of drinking we both laid hungover and naked in our bed.
My foreskin actually covered 3/4 of my glans (which rarely happens, most of the time when being super flaccid and hungover). I didn't even notice it, but she instantly asked like "ooooh honey, what happened? Let me fix that really quick! It looks soooooo much better when there is no skin in the way!"

So my GF really appreciates it for the looks and aesthetics.
Feeling wise it's more or less still the same as before for us.
-Foreskin is foreskin, some like it some don't-
I actually have to admit that i don't really like the feeling of foreskin gliding while having sex, but that's a really personal preference.

Cheers
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: ma91 on 2020-07-29 06:09:01
My boyfriend thinks it's weird, I think he prefers the uncut look. And I even only told him about pulling back naturally yet (with which I started), not even about the methods keeping it pulled back tighter (his first reaction is holding me back, not to mention I'm entertaining the idea of tying my frenulum). Although he'll find out soon enough as the tape seems to leave behind traces when pulling it off 😂. God this is like coming out all over again xD
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: CuriousSkinner on 2020-07-29 08:16:17
Funny your boyfriend thinks this @ma91
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My boyfriend thinks it's weird, I think he prefers the uncut look
as my husband is the same and he is circumcised! He said he thinks it looks uncomfortable, although he is always saying that he thinks his is cleaner...so I can't win haha.

Always pull back for sex though which is similar to @supersonic, although I love the sliding feeling myself which I guess is why I wouldn't want to be circed myself.

Everyone is different guess!
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: TipsOut on 2020-08-02 23:23:12

I actually have to admit that i don't really like the feeling of foreskin gliding while having sex, but that's a really personal preference.

Cheers


I can’t think of a time when I actually experienced the gliding during sex. I’ve started out covered when entering my wife, but as I enter, it usually goes back pretty quick and stays back after that. It’s always been that way for over 20 years with her now. I’ve always seen the videos about the gliding mechanism, but it hasn’t worked that way for us. I’m not complaining though because I prefer to stay pulled back during sex.

It’s funny though because either one of us will pull it back right before we put it in. Most likely because we’ve always done that since we did that before putting on condom when we used to use them.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: Hortus on 2020-10-31 15:56:12
Having had most of my early GF not fussed about pulled back or circumcised, one in particular was very certain that a bare head was the best and openly said she would prefer me circumcised if we stayed together. Though we were not together long I started to pull back and over the last 20 years it now remains so most 99%. Fast forward to now, I have been married for many years and my wife also prefers the pulled back and bare knob with a lovely dry head which she caresses and teases with the foreskin tightly held back to keep the rim exposed to her touch. Though we have discussed a circumcision, she says if I was cut before we met then no problem but she is happy with my pulled back status and loves a clean looking dry heard especially when she gives head.
Keep on pulling back
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: Dicsolovag on 2020-11-01 09:41:30
My wife (GF 1+ years when I started pulling back seriously) seems she doesn't care about if it is pulled back or not, but I can see that she likes the look.
Since then I can keep it back naturally on it's own and I'm using metal glans rings couple of hours a day to have wider separation between the head and the bunch.
What we both recognized and appreciate is the amount that I can last longer.
I would have been considering myself a quickie in the past and that caused me some serious self-confidence issues.
Since I achieved permanent retraction (took more than a year), all my self-confidence issues are gone. These days I'm the one who lasts longer usually and I can please here as well as I'm enjoying it.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: guest1490 on 2020-11-02 19:56:00
Self conscious in bed or just generally?
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: guest3969 on 2020-12-03 12:12:34
My wife is the reason I started pulling it back 13 years ago.  Mostly because she likes the look, as do I, and partly to desensitize. But anytime it accidentally goes forward, she calls me out and I pull it back. Sometimes I push it forward just to aggravate her and get a reaction.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: guest4003 on 2021-01-02 02:40:31
Wife prefers look pulled back with exposed head.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: guidobriao on 2021-02-08 23:08:56
I had a slight smell problem, even though I cleaned myself with water before I went to her, after hours when it was time .. well it smelled slightly, it bothered me more than her, my girlfriend never said anything about it, after all it is natural, but now that it has been retracted for 3 years I have to say that I am much more confident and I do not have to clean it before going to her, in fact it smells good now!
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: jack803 on 2021-10-16 17:07:47
My current girlfriend likes the look of the intact penis, because she says she likes to do the up and down motion and then oral and play with it, but she has never tried a circumcised penis.  A friend of mine on the other hand, speaking once, liked the intact penis of her ex boyfriends, until she got engaged to her current boyfriend who was circumcised as a child for phimosis problems, and told me that she would no longer like with an uncircumcised.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: andy on 2021-10-17 18:54:08
I was never pulled back in our 1st 20 years of marriage, but one day I asked her if she preferred it pulled back or left forward and she said she would like it kept pulled back when I was naked.  That started my journey to being pulled back full time.

in my case it was the women who made me leave the glans uncovered all the time. i have been uncovered since 1994 and there was not a single woman who would have preferred a foreskin.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: jimmy on 2022-12-13 13:07:18
Ex-wife use to love it being uncovered but to be honest most most recent partners aren’t really bothered too much. One in particular tho use to ask quite a few questions about it
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: Uncle Albert on 2023-10-12 04:43:04
My wife assumed I was cut the first few times we had sex, I had to prove to her I wasn't by rolling the skin forwards. I secretly loved that she thought that, obviously every time she had seen it my skin was back. She has always said she preferred the rounded look to that of a foreskin being forwards, however when forwards I never really had any overhang anyway and it would always roll back itself and stay there.

Previous girlfriends have always been inquisitive and supportive, and I also found great support in a female friend who I discussed being pulled back with as I was making the step from partially being pulled back to 24/7 fully retracted. She was an older work colleague who would chat really openly with me about my penis. She obviously enjoyed it and would encourage me to skin back. We actually used to have a game where she would say forwards or back in open conversation with people, who didn't know the reference, and if I said forwards then she would say 'sort it' and I'd scurry off to the toilet to fix the issue. If I said back she would praise me. It was fun, I was young and loved the attention. We've spoken about it since and she has said the same. Unfortunately we have lost contact.
Title: Re: wife's / GF's opinion on your look
Post by: ux on 2023-10-12 18:17:49
My girlfriend said its weird because in natural is covered head and if I want to have bare head then I should consider circumcision.