Pulled back — living with a bare head

General Category => Polls => Topic started by: Rlewin on 2014-11-29 04:17:05

Title: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Rlewin on 2014-11-29 04:17:05
I was just wondering if sexuality had anything to do with foreskin retraction. Don't answer if you don't feel comfortable. ;D
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Kylar on 2014-11-29 13:30:02
My experience from the Yahoo group was that an incredible amount of people talking about their (and others') dicks there were straight.  Honestly didn't add up in my head, but hey :D
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Johnny_V on 2014-11-29 15:50:46
I see my dick as I see my car, taking experiance from other people isn't affected from my sexuality.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Kylar on 2014-11-29 17:02:39
Interesting :)

Most of my straight friends wouldn't want to hear about, let alone talk about & examine other guys' penises, that's why it's always been kinda weird for me :D
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: guest118 on 2014-12-01 05:52:25
I'm straight, I love tits and pussy. But I also have a curiosity for cocks, never actually done anything with one, but might if i had the chance.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: keratinise on 2014-12-03 20:05:47
I think a lot of men are simply curious about cock and enjoy talking about and comparing to other guys. Pulling back is just something only other guys could properly relate to since only they have penises.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: GlansLiberation on 2014-12-19 11:49:49
I don't think talking about and/or looking at cock necessarily has a sexual dimension. I mean, as a bi/gay guy you might be inclined to read some homoeroticism into it because, well, it's obvious bis/gays would derive pleasure from doing so.

But just like what happens on forums about bodybuilding, talking about pulling back is ultimately and mostly about guys becoming more satisfied with themselves and their own body. It just so happens that it requires a certain amount of scienttic interest in other guys(' cocks).
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: halfard on 2015-01-01 08:39:41
I have always enjoyed playing with my own cock but until the internet and forums like this, I could never look at, talk about, watch etc unless I met another str8 guy who had the same interest and that might only be with a bi or gay guy.  The internet gives us all freedom to just look and enjoy looking without any complications or embarasment.  I have always found cut cock soooo sexy yet could never look without 'staring' That all changed now and we can watch showing or masturbating with others who think the same.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Turmion on 2015-09-24 22:04:31
I was just wondering if sexuality had anything to do with foreskin retraction.

It could have sth. to do with it but the number of people answering to this pull is much too low. It should be about 500+ to minimize error rate.
For me it's the same like many guys here: I'm interested in cocks but I'm not gay. I would consider myself to be between straight and bi. I can only love women but also had sexual interactions with boys when I was a teen.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: zell85 on 2015-09-25 09:37:44
I'm gay, so I suppose I relate to my penis differently from how other people do. Firstly, I have no interest in the insertive role, so I don't look at my penis so much as a sexual tool, but really something I stimulate for self gratification. So, I place a relatively higher importance to the aesthetics of the penis than the function.

And foreskin retraction looks aesthetically pleasing to me so there. Not too concerned with the loss of sensitivity because I don't plan to insert my penis into any vagina or anus.

Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: pelagian on 2015-09-27 11:46:30
My experience from the Yahoo group was that an incredible amount of people talking about their (and others') dicks there were straight.  Honestly didn't add up in my head, but hey :D

I think you could be right, though I don't recall ever doing a poll on it there!

There are really two questions here:
1. do you find retraction to be erotic in itself - and if so, what is your sexuality?
2. is retracting merely a 'body image' thing - and if so, what is your sexuality?

In both cases, the answer is as likely to be one thing as another. Guys do other things to their cocks (genital piercings and so on) for either of those reasons, and as many straight as gay will do so. I think also that straight guys are more comfortable now with talking about such things - especially via the anonymity of the internet. But I have in the course of my life been in male-only groups, where everyone knew each other well (and were mostly straight) and the talk has turned to cocks - usually because circumcision has been mentioned, or because some other guy not present is rumoured to have a huge one and god help his wife ... !!



Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: TapedStick on 2016-03-21 05:40:58
It's interesting... When I was in high school, I would occasionally notice a cut guy in peripheral vision at a urinal or in showers at summer camp. I guess I tried retraction not out of any desire to be cut, but perhaps out of curiosity of what they must experience on a daily basis. I guess I just wanted to have some amount of empathy. I did think the sensations were interesting, and bare head masturbation is a different (not necessarily better) experience.

But afterwards, my gun wants it's sheath. Also, in potentially really nasty situations (swimming in stagnant water in the hot summer, various really dirty jobs like dealing with trash, or trying to even use the bathroom #1 or #2  in an outhouse swarming with flies), I want my foreskin protecting the head. My instinct says that particular part of the body needs to be protected from nastiness or potentially infected/diseased materials. Oh yeah, the natural extension of that thought is that anal sex (with a woman or a man) seems EXTREMELY repulsive to me. There's poop and poop bacteria/viruses up there.

Retraction allows for an occasional novelty to masturbation technique, but when not in an aroused state, we've got our protective sheath.

Str8 with a gf here, but I can imagine mutual masturbation with buddies as a form of male bonding. I have ZERO desire for a boyfriend. But the more close bros the better.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: jdm on 2016-03-22 02:17:00
It's interesting... When I was in high school, I would occasionally notice a cut guy in peripheral vision at a urinal or in showers at summer camp. I guess I tried retraction not out of any desire to be cut, but perhaps out of curiosity of what they must experience on a daily basis. I guess I just wanted to have some amount of empathy. I did think the sensations were interesting, and bare head masturbation is a different (not necessarily better) experience.

But afterwards, my gun wants it's sheath. Also, in potentially really nasty situations (swimming in stagnant water in the hot summer, various really dirty jobs like dealing with trash, or trying to even use the bathroom #1 or #2  in an outhouse swarming with flies), I want my foreskin protecting the head. My instinct says that particular part of the body needs to be protected from nastiness or potentially infected/diseased materials. Oh yeah, the natural extension of that thought is that anal sex (with a woman or a man) seems EXTREMELY repulsive to me. There's poop and poop bacteria/viruses up there.

Retraction allows for an occasional novelty to masturbation technique, but when not in an aroused state, we've got our protective sheath.

Str8 with a gf here, but I can imagine mutual masturbation with buddies as a form of male bonding. I have ZERO desire for a boyfriend. But the more close bros the better.


I agree with almost everything you said. Except that I couldn't see myself jerking off another guy, or being jerked off by one. However, for me, I also enjoy long term retraction. I find it erotic, and it makes me more focused on sex. I still generally want for my foreskin to cover my glans after sex or masturbation, even after months of persistent retraction. But wearing it pulled back throughout the day is enjoyable for me, even when I'm not thinking about it. When I eventually do think about it, it makes me happy and turned on. Strangely though, when I see my retracted reflection in the mirror, it doesn't look right to me. I always feel like an unexposed glans is the normal body image for me. Weird.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: jdm on 2016-03-22 02:27:45
I have always enjoyed playing with my own cock but until the internet and forums like this, I could never look at, talk about, watch etc unless I met another str8 guy who had the same interest and that might only be with a bi or gay guy.  The internet gives us all freedom to just look and enjoy looking without any complications or embarasment.  I have always found cut cock soooo sexy yet could never look without 'staring' That all changed now and we can watch showing or masturbating with others who think the same.


I agree with this. It's a good analogy. Straight bodybuilders certainly like to discuss training techniques and look at other bodybuilders of their same gender to study and appreciate their achievements, as well as making comparisons to themselves and others, without being sexually turned on by this. I feel that way about penises and retraction. However, I also find the concept of long term glans exposure erotic, so there is a sexual component there, but it's not gay. I hope that makes sense. :)
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: bobenc0 on 2016-05-25 12:20:50
Honestly I consider myself between straight and bi. I have a loving Girlfriend but from time to time I just need some different pleasure, so I have e male friend who do the same and we meet each other once every couple months, if that makes me BI..
Can't lie about my addiction to dicks.. I just love the way they look, an uncut retracted one looks the best for me, I just don't like the circumcision scar some guys have, but still like most of the cut penises too. Looking at man, no matter how good he looks, never turns me on, but when I see a dick.. it's over :)
Other than that I really love girls...pussy, tits and ass are so hot.
And I don't think the retraction have something with the sex orientation.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: glanscover on 2016-07-12 16:21:23
My take on seeing the cock/dick/penis of other guys lies with the sexual part of imagining what female lookers are seeing, thinking and
desiring.  I fantasize about the times that my cock was exposed to the eyes of a female in my presence.  Their
gaze, touch; so much told by the expression on their face, their eyes locked on my cock,
how they touch, stroke, squeeze, rub and question things happening, such as precum leak.
I enjoy them reaching into my pants, lifting my balls, bouncing them lightly, asking
questions about their current state of hang, etc.

But, as far as me being sexually aroused seeing another's penis/cock, not happening, although,
I do admire them for their appearance, how they compare with other, size, etc. 
Title: Re: Sexsuality and Retraction
Post by: knowmore123 on 2016-08-04 15:50:53
Actually smooth retraction is very important for enjoyable intercourse. you can not insert penis in vagina unless your foreskin pulled back comfortably.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: glanscover on 2016-08-21 15:53:28
I am str8, single, 73 years old.  I enjoy looking at other cocks when they are
in the situation of being admired by a female.  It helps with my jerking session
when I see a woman attracted to a cock, jerking it, licking it, making it cum.

I can relate to that situation, remembering my younger days, mostly before
i was married. (all that ended after the honeymoon)

Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Resqdave on 2016-11-03 13:56:13
I am straight, but definitely enjoy looking at other guys cocks and do get aroused by it.   I love women and everything about sex with a woman.   I can't imagine intercourse with another man, but sometimes I think I could go for mutual masturbation and have definitely wondered what it would be like to have a cock in my mouth.   I've been involved in a couple of MMF threesomes and never done anything with the other guy, but sometimes our cocks would touch and it was a great feeling.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Uncut_soldier on 2016-11-08 04:08:31
I am straight, but definitely enjoy looking at other guys cocks and do get aroused by it.   I love women and everything about sex with a woman.   I can't imagine intercourse with another man, but sometimes I think I could go for mutual masturbation and have definitely wondered what it would be like to have a cock in my mouth.   I've been involved in a couple of MMF threesomes and never done anything with the other guy, but sometimes our cocks would touch and it was a great feeling.

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Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Kylar on 2016-11-10 00:50:50
Check out the Tumblr page "Fuck Yeah Friendly Fire". You'll thank me later :)

Haha that's an amazing blog title :D
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Maxl on 2016-12-07 18:47:11
I voted Bi but I´d like to explain this: Most of my sexual activities are with a fem. partner, however I like to do each other hand jobs with a male friend. Just hand jobs, not more. I like to see nice tits as well as cocks or a bulge in the pants.
So my personal definition regarding my sexual orientation is: hetero and a bit gay.

Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Uncut_soldier on 2016-12-07 23:52:47
I voted Bi but I´d like to explain this: Most of my sexual activities are with a fem. partner, however I like to do each other hand jobs with a male friend. Just hand jobs, not more. I like to see nice tits as well as cocks or a bulge in the pants.
So my personal definition regarding my sexual orientation is: hetero and a bit gay.

That was me until a few months back and I got into oral too. Couldn't help myself lol
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Maxl on 2016-12-08 21:08:06
@Uncut_soldier
Well, life is colorful and many things can happen.......
Have fun, whatsoever you do !!
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: frenulum on 2022-07-07 22:41:01
I’m actually surprised over a quarter of us are gay. Neat!
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: TipsOut on 2022-08-07 20:11:08
Straight all the way, but I like to see what others have. Mostly to see if they are cut or not since I feel like I’m in the minority. I grew up with so many guys that were circumcised that I’ve never been comfortable being exposed around other males. I’ve been trying to get over that since I’ve been keeping it pulled back and have even cut my frenulum.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: wolf77 on 2022-08-12 08:58:51
I feel similar to the previous poster, I'm somewhere between straight and bi. I have only been in relationships with women but I do enjoy playing with a nice cock. When I've been single I have enjoyed mutual oral and masturbation with guys from time to time, but that's as far as it ever went.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Kylar on 2022-08-12 10:36:16
I feel similar to the previous poster, I'm somewhere between straight and bi. I have only been in relationships with women but I do enjoy playing with a nice cock. When I've been single I have enjoyed mutual oral and masturbation with guys from time to time, but that's as far as it ever went.

Bisexual and heteroromantic is a valid combination :)
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: wolf77 on 2022-08-12 10:58:51
Yes, I think that describes me pretty well.  :)
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: wolf77 on 2022-08-14 04:23:47
Just been thinking. If my current relationship goes the distance (looking good so far, fingers crossed) then the penis belonging to the last guy I met was the last one I'll ever get to play with. Other than my own of course. A rather sobering thought! I got the insomnia blues...
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: Kylar on 2022-08-14 17:07:33
Just been thinking. If my current relationship goes the distance (looking good so far, fingers crossed) then the penis belonging to the last guy I met was the last one I'll ever get to play with. Other than my own of course. A rather sobering thought! I got the insomnia blues...

Why would it be the last one?
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: wolf77 on 2022-08-15 06:51:06
Maybe my way of looking at things is old-fashioned, but I believe in being faithful to my partners. As my partner is a woman, and if I'm with her till the end of my days, then that means no more playing with willies for me I guess.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: PermanetlyBareKnob on 2022-08-22 14:42:47
I think I might be a bit odd.  I am exclusively romantically and sexually attracted to women, but I am extremely sexually aroused by circumcision and circumcised penis. A lot of porn I consume focuses on circumcised men jerking off or just playing around with their penis.  I would even be interested in mutual masturbation, but nothing at all beyond that.

And yet, aside from that, I am only interested in dating and sex with women.
Title: Re: Sexuality and Foreskin Retraction
Post by: skynbak on 2022-08-27 12:53:06
This thread started in 2014 and is still active! Nice! I think that talking about the stuff we do would be too awkward to talk about face to face with another man face to face. So Kylar, yes, I agree with you. One of your replies back in 2014. I say it would be awkward but that doesn't mean you can't create an understanding. You would start the conversation however then bring up pulling back. That's when it would get weird. You could attempt to steer the conversation away from being too weird by talking about how much better it could feel with their partner.