Pulled back — living with a bare head

General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: thesevenpointfive on 2019-12-31 22:51:53

Title: Flared head
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2019-12-31 22:51:53
I love the expanded head, where the corona looks really large (Like a flare), I see these on cut guys and want to get one, which will help with the skin staying back. I wonder, does any one have any idea of how to get a flared head. I use a ring, which has helped, but wonder if any one has any other suggestions
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: FormerRetractor on 2019-12-31 23:07:49
Yeah, I've also often wondered if having the glans permanently exposed creates more of a 'flare'...I don't know the answer.  I feel like my glans has a big 'flare' now, but not sure about the reason.
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: Georgek on 2019-12-31 23:16:29
I have a question about rings. I am thinking of using one but what troubles me is what is happening when you get aroused. As I just started I am very sensitive and I have a lot of erections so I am afraid of using the ring in case it hurts me
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2019-12-31 23:43:53
Quote from: George. K on 2019-12-31 23:16:29
I have a question about rings. I am thinking of using one but what troubles me is what is happening when you get aroused. As I just started I am very sensitive and I have a lot of erections so I am afraid of using the ring in case it hurts me

Nothing to much, your dick will tell you if it hurts and will react to that.

Quote from: FormerRetractor on 2019-12-31 23:07:49
Yeah, I've also often wondered if having the glans permanently exposed creates more of a 'flare'...I don't know the answer.  I feel like my glans has a big 'flare' now, but not sure about the reason.
This is what i see, a flared head, and i wonder why that happens
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: Hazeleye on 2020-01-01 03:28:25
I don't know if I have much more of an answer to 'flaring.' As a teenager before I started to do any pullback the glans was what I now would consider smaller. However when I did start to pullback I did notice over time the corona did get larger. The only explanation that I might have is the glans dries out and, with no outer pressure covering and not being kept moist there is now the opportunity for the tissue to relax and take on a larger dimension.

After having been totally uncovered for 30 years, I went covered for 25. At no time did I notice then that the flaring subsided. Once flared, flared all the time.
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2020-01-01 08:18:53
Quote from: Hazeleye on 2020-01-01 03:28:25
I don't know if I have much more of an answer to 'flaring.' As a teenager before I started to do any pullback the glans was what I now would consider smaller. However when I did start to pullback I did notice over time the corona did get larger. The only explanation that I might have is the glans dries out and, with no outer pressure covering and not being kept moist there is now the opportunity for the tissue to relax and take on a larger dimension.

After having been totally uncovered for 30 years, I went covered for 25. At no time did I notice then that the flaring subsided. Once flared, flared all the time.
Yes i think mine is the same, i look at older pictures, an think it drys out and as you say no pressure  it can expand
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: guest285 on 2020-01-01 12:49:39
Same here.
Before i started to retract, my glans was totally invisible... Meaning as thick as my shaft... You wouldn't see any outline. After retracting on and off since bout 10years now, my head looks like a mushroom with the outline visible though my underwear, even when the foreskin covers it. Seems like it has flared permanently ^^ hehe
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2020-01-01 15:41:25
Quote from: awesome21 on 2020-01-01 12:49:39
Same here.
Before i started to retract, my glans was totally invisible... Meaning as thick as my shaft... You wouldn't see any outline. After retracting on and off since bout 10years now, my head looks like a mushroom with the outline visible though my underwear, even when the foreskin covers it. Seems like it has flared permanently ^^ hehe

Yes, when i have underwear on, it looks like i am cut as the out line is so pronounced
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: streetcar on 2020-01-02 09:02:43
although I am skinned back only for more than two years I can see difference - my glans is more flared and it can be seen through underwear and I like this new shape
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2020-01-02 19:28:01
Quote from: streetcar on 2020-01-02 09:02:43
although I am skinned back only for more than two years I can see difference - my glans is more flared and it can be seen through underwear and I like this new shape

Wow that is a flare, the side looks a lot bigger, well done, yes as mentioned in this thread exposing it for a long time will have an effect on the head
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: headytimes on 2020-01-02 22:44:13
Yes I have noticed that my head is significantly more flared than it used to be, very visible through my foreskin and clothing
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2020-01-03 09:48:20
Quote from: headytimes on 2020-01-02 22:44:13
Yes I have noticed that my head is significantly more flared than it used to be, very visible through my foreskin and clothing

So is this a trend, that if you do skin back the head starts to expand. I used a ring some times to help the effect
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: headytimes on 2020-01-03 13:14:25
I think so, the foreskin is no longer covering it and constraining the head and depending on how you pull back it is likely to be pushing up against the corona. I have a picture the first week I started over 3 years ago and my corona is now significantly and visibly more flared
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: Jockbox on 2020-01-03 14:53:49
Hi, I think my head is more flared now with me being almost pulled back 24/7. I do like the look of it and a flared head in general, looks very nice.
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2020-01-03 15:26:17
Quote from: Jockbox on 2020-01-03 14:53:49
Hi, I think my head is more flared now with me being almost pulled back 24/7. I do like the look of it and a flared head in general, looks very nice.
It does seem to be the case, thing is i never noticed until now, looking  at my old pictures to check that
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: Johnscot on 2020-01-05 22:57:48
I've been pulled back with a glans ring for 2+ years now and I'm sure I'm more flared.

I try to accentuate it more by rubbing up my cock when masturbating with my foreskin taped firmly back, this is having a pronounced effect. 
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: billymachine79 on 2020-01-15 20:14:04
Precisely what got me into this particular interest of pulling back: Sebastian... See, Sebastián is my cousin from Puerto Rico and several times we got to see each other naked, a natural thing. What always caught my attention, was when he started wearing his skin back. He always insisted in me doing so too, saying it was cleaner and it would grow bigger he used to say... but I just couldn't manage permanent retraction at that age, around 11 or 12 i guess... but just last summer, we got to meet again, and both our girlfriends being so openminded circumstances soon had us in Puerto Rico, in the pool side some warm night, now that we are fifteen years older (im 27 he 28) and he surely likes to brag because he removed his swim shorts and we were all taken aback, I felt envy and my girlfriend stared steadily... it was quite a protruded head, a thick flared corona... and it looked cleanly cut. I had to ask, if he had gotten a circumsition; but he said, his dick outgrew his childish skin far ago. And because of that, the corona then flared proudly. Needless to say, over the course of the night, he got more than one of the gals to suck him...I should have started pulling back when he did. My girlfriend agrees with me.
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: camchain on 2020-01-16 07:44:08
Yes it does make a difference, i have noticed that over the last few years.
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: scotsguy27 on 2020-01-16 16:58:17
I've been pulling back for a few years and I've noticed a substantial difference in how pronounced by glans/head is. There's more of a bell shape to it and the coronal ridge is more prominent and believe it or not it's still a sensitive part compared to the rest of the head.
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: thesevenpointfive on 2020-01-17 08:33:13
Quote from: scotsguy27 on 2020-01-16 16:58:17
I've been pulling back for a few years and I've noticed a substantial difference in how pronounced by glans/head is. There's more of a bell shape to it and the coronal ridge is more prominent and believe it or not it's still a sensitive part compared to the rest of the head.
Yes this is what i see, so i am not alone then
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: Georgek on 2020-01-17 08:44:24
Hmmm I don't know since I started my corona seems a bit more flared but not enough to keep the skin back (especially when flaccid) but this area is not sensitive for me even though I am new to this. The most sensitive part for me is the meatus.
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: lvprcm on 2020-01-21 20:08:40
Quote from: billymachine79 on 2020-01-15 20:14:04
Precisely what got me into this particular interest of pulling back: Sebastian... See, Sebastián is my cousin from Puerto Rico and several times we got to see each other naked, a natural thing. What always caught my attention, was when he started wearing his skin back. He always insisted in me doing so too, saying it was cleaner and it would grow bigger he used to say... but I just couldn't manage permanent retraction at that age, around 11 or 12 i guess... but just last summer, we got to meet again, and both our girlfriends being so openminded circumstances soon had us in Puerto Rico, in the pool side some warm night, now that we are fifteen years older (im 27 he 28) and he surely likes to brag because he removed his swim shorts and we were all taken aback, I felt envy and my girlfriend stared steadily... it was quite a protruded head, a thick flared corona... and it looked cleanly cut. I had to ask, if he had gotten a circumsition; but he said, his dick outgrew his childish skin far ago. And because of that, the corona then flared proudly. Needless to say, over the course of the night, he got more than one of the gals to suck him...I should have started pulling back when he did. My girlfriend agrees with me.

Really enjoyed reading about your experience. I too worked at keeping my foreskin retracted as kid when I saw my cousin kept his retracted. I was about 10 and he was about 12. I had seen him when we were younger and we seemed to have identical as far as foreskin and penis type. He seemed to have managed to do this fairly easy, I struggled with it for many years.

I was curious as to what prompted my cousin to retract his. He grew up in Mexico and I grew up in U.S.. I begin to believe that it was a cultural thing I missed out on because I have seen other male cousins who also have retracted foreskins.
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: Jules on 2020-09-19 09:36:19
I think getting exposed helps. Then pushing of the retracted foreskin on the corona behind the glans as well as cockring there with a little constriction of the area where it's narrowest. Pushing blood exercises may help too.
https://ahcaf.com/penis-glans-exercises/
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: Test123 on 2020-09-19 13:44:55
Quote from: Hazeleye on 2020-01-01 03:28:25After having been totally uncovered for 30 years, I went covered for 25. At no time did I notice then that the flaring subsided. Once flared, flared all the time.
Interesting. Why did you revert to covered?
Title: Re: Flared head
Post by: Hazeleye on 2020-09-23 03:10:03
Quote from: Test123 on 2020-09-19 13:44:55
Interesting. Why did you revert to covered?

I am one to get into doing one thing or another. Sometimes I go too far. I started doing extreme things with enjoying the sensitivity of the inner foreskin and realized I needed to take a break and be covered. It took 5 years of special taping to stay "forward" and by then I had put so much into it I just didn't go back. By then I had also regained sensitivity and that further discouraged me to be "pulled back."