Hi all,
I've been pulling back for about a month now. First few days were uncomfortable but became fine and enjoyable after that. I was hypersensitive before. There was no way before that I could masturbate with lube with my hands, it would simply hurt too much. Sex toys like fleshlights hurt too much too.
The simple act of pulling back has meant I have more options now. I can masturbate skin forward as I always did or pulled back with lube. When I first joined this forum I searched for posts about how sex was after pulling back but struggled for results. So I thought I'd add mine, and please add yours if you wish.
Beforehand I had great sex but always felt I could do with lasting a tad longer. I don't mean marathons or porn star standards ... Just that extra 25%. I've always been able to control when I came so I could always pull out and go down on my gf to keep things going, not a problem.
First time having sex after pulling back for a few weeks though she came twice vaginally, because I lasted that bit longer. That hadn't happened since we started dating years back. And when I came I didn't have to make her freeze every muscle, she could carry on grinding on top of me.
This whole experience has been liberating and I wish I'd discovered it earlier. A random Google search found this forum, thanks for the help!
That's a great success story, thanks for sharing. Keep it up!!
Quote from: blip on 2020-12-30 00:22:43
Hi all,
I've been pulling back for about a month now. First few days were uncomfortable but became fine and enjoyable after that. I was hypersensitive before. There was no way before that I could masturbate with lube with my hands, it would simply hurt too much. Sex toys like fleshlights hurt too much too.
The simple act of pulling back has meant I have more options now. I can masturbate skin forward as I always did or pulled back with lube. When I first joined this forum I searched for posts about how sex was after pulling back but struggled for results. So I thought I'd add mine, and please add yours if you wish.
Beforehand I had great sex but always felt I could do with lasting a tad longer. I don't mean marathons or porn star standards ... Just that extra 25%. I've always been able to control when I came so I could always pull out and go down on my gf to keep things going, not a problem.
First time having sex after pulling back for a few weeks though she came twice vaginally, because I lasted that bit longer. That hadn't happened since we started dating years back. And when I came I didn't have to make her freeze every muscle, she could carry on grinding on top of me.
This whole experience has been liberating and I wish I'd discovered it earlier. A random Google search found this forum, thanks for the help!
Thats a great story, as you go on, it will become less sensitive which will help you sustain for a longer your sex