Pulling skin back over after orgasm

[Jagtstein]

I start the masturbation with the 3 finger method, that is. Middle and index fingers of the right hand on the bottom of the penis and thumbs up. This is best because at my age, (73 years) the penis is not getting stiff so fast anymore. Then when the excitement potential increases, I take as before the whole hand. I always push the foreskin back and forth the whole stroke. That's just the advantage of masturbation that you can satisfy even without a full erection.
As a lubricant, butter has been found to be best over time, and I used to use a fat cream that is not so good on the skin in the long term. Above all, it is important to wash the penis well after use, cleanliness is very important for a habitual masturbator like me, because the penis in good condition must always be available. After ejaculation, I close the foreskin again. Because then the glans is well protected, and the sensitivity is preserved.

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I love this poll. It is so relevant to retracting ... Even with 10+ years of almost 24/7 retracting, I felt until recently that the urge was still there to cover the head after orgasm. With intercourse I don't have the choice really, the penis softens fast and pulling out will automatically cover the glans. However when I play solo with lube massaging, skin pulled back tight, the orgasm is not localized in the glans only, it is much deeper throughout the whole member. Then I feel absolutely no urge to cover after coming. If I masturbate by moving the retracted  foreskin  up and down on the shaft, even though the head stays bare during the act the urge to cover will be almost unstoppable afterwards ...

It's interesting when you watch these porn videos where you sometimes wonder if the guy is cut or not ... when you see one of them finally bringing the foreskin over the head when or right after cumming ... you know he just couldn't help it

[Fabik]

Sorry for digging this relatively old thread.

As discussed in the other thread : I'm not (yet ?) a permanent retractor, but actually since a few years now I have been masturbating with direct stimulation and retracting with the other hand (not always, but mostly). And what I aimed to do, is do it that way and then stay retracted for the night. For some reason I thought that was a good idea to start retracting.

I was very wrong. Staying retracted after orgasm is impossible. I tried dozens, and dozens of times. What I didn't even know is that it's much simpler to retract during the day. Retracting during the night but without any sexual activity is hard, but not as hard. Why didn't I start with that, I don't know.

And after all what's so wrong with that ? There's nothing wrong about retracting day only, or even 24/7 but make an exception after orgasms.

[Kylar]

And after all what's so wrong with that ? There's nothing wrong about retracting day only, or even 24/7 but make an exception after orgasms.

I guess it depends on the personal goal — if you want to be retracted 24/7, maybe your goal is to be able to stay back even after orgasm.

I can do it, it took me a long long time, but it's not at all horrible anymore.

[lvprcm]

I feel that was one of the few benefits of having sex was having your penis stayed somewhat engorged for awhile after orgasm therefore naturally allowing my foreskin to stay retracted with no effort at least for a few hours. It was the best of outcomes I thought. Unfortunately, it was always short-lived since once back to normal the foreskin would have a tendency to roll over the glans as it gradually soften.  :-\

[M_back__uk]

I use the spoon method to keep retracted all the time and so when I masturbate I always keep the skin pulled back behind the glands and it feels so good, especially when I cum and my glands are engorged.

However when I have sex with my wife I always have to unfold the folded skin back over the glands before intercourse as it just pulls my skin back far too tight and feels extremely uncomfortable.

Afterwards, the skin normally stays somewhat pulled back but as soon as I am soft again, it will pull forward over the glands again and I often then don't pull back again until I feel the need to, which sometimes may be one or two days later.

[jamestrt1]

For years I had the urge to pull the foreskin forward after sex or masturbating. I often thought I would try keeping it back, but I just somehow got the feeling I needed to have it forward, as I think many men do, due to the extra sensitivity after orgasm. Once I started to keep retracted 24/7, with the tucking under method (like the spoon method), when my glans had fully dried out and toughened up I began to be able to keep it back after orgasm, and nowadays never even think of having it forward afterwards. In fact if it rolls forward as I come out of my wife, I immediately have to pull it back, as it feels uncomfortable to be covered now after so many years of retracting.

[guest285]

Same here. The first years when I didn't pull back 24/7 I always pulled the skin forward after orgasm. I wasn't able to keep it retracted cause of the sensitivity. Since I went for a frenulectomy and permanent retraction for 5 months now I don't feel any need to cover the head afterwards anymore. I can put it straight back in my trunks. That's shelter enough for my glans. ^^

[Argon]

I used to feel a strong urge to cover my glans after masturbating.  It took a while and some effort to get past it but now I never put it forward. My foreskin remains retracted 24/7.

[otter_alex]

Not anymore - at this point I've been retracting long enough that any post-orgasm sensitivity isn't an issue. Generally speaking I find leaving it pulled back makes for easier cleaning up of ejaculate that might seep out as I soften up.

[mrpink]

Mine stays back after orgasm until it goes completely soft, if I don't touch it.

[evisucamper]

It depends on the intensity, if the process is too intense, I'll pull it foreword and give the glans a bit of a rest

[HisRoyalDudel]

As a lubricant, butter has been found to be best over time, and I used to use a fat cream that is not so good on the skin in the long term.

Have you never tried KY Jelly or other store bought water based lubricants?? I just couldn't imagine rubbing butter on my cock?!

[GarethUK]

I always wank skinned back and lubed, and it was a big day for me when that deep need that others have mentioned to cover over as soon as I had cum (even if I'd been retracted for days beforehand) suddenly vanished. Now it feels perfectly natural to stay un-covered, and that special sensitivity after orgasm has become enjoyable to experience. I suppose, over time, our minds finally adjust to new ways in the same way as our bodies do.

[retreactor]

Have you never tried KY Jelly or other store bought water based lubricants?? I just couldn't imagine rubbing butter on my cock?!

Strange as it may sound, butter might not be such a bad idea after all. It is all natural, no chemicals and aditives as in industrial products. And it is the rule of tumb, that what you can eat , you can put on your body, so why not use it on your cock? And I imagine it has very good lubricating properties, too.